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How old were you when you got married?
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Why so young......were they shotgun weddings? :)
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original dervish wrote:Why so young......were they shotgun weddings? :)
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Girls, 20/21 is fairly young for young adults who were born/raised in the West.

Was it difficult getting use to masuuliyada and getting along with in-laws?
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Inaayah iska guurso inaar naaguhu cimri maleh hadaad 40 dhaafto huudhaydh baad noqonaysaa cidwalbaa kugu jufaysa.
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Lol I'm no where near 30 and you're talking about 40. InshAllah I'm in no rush, ka ugu horeeya ee ila hadla ku dhagi maayo.
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sug aan xisaabshee.

1978-2006=28 years baan jiray. Yes, it was so hard to come home at 8pm and being asked where are you going and when are you coming. It was also hard to be there every evening at home for a visiting women introduction which is not ending especially the first 30 days of the wedding. Maalinba islaan bed sheet $20 wado baa imaanaysa and we spend the whole day cleaning the house and cooking for her.

1st tip, when you are about to get married, remember one thing and stick it in your head and azz. everything in your life will take a different turn and you better get used to it.
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Inaayah wrote:Lol I'm no where near 30 and you're talking about 40. InshAllah I'm in no rush, ka ugu horeeya ee ila hadla ku dhagi maayo.
you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.

if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
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Sumubaridi wrote:
Inaayah wrote:Lol I'm no where near 30 and you're talking about 40. InshAllah I'm in no rush, ka ugu horeeya ee ila hadla ku dhagi maayo.
you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.

if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Bless, is this what old geezers tell themselves.. :|
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Sumubaridi wrote:you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.

if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Rubbish. I know Somali couples where both the man and the woman are 30 when they first married.
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Xeno wrote:
Sumubaridi wrote:you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.

if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Rubbish. I know Somali couples where both the man and the woman are 30 when they first married.
The girl might have claimed a fake age. She might have been 30 but claimed 25. Its ceeb in the somali culture for a woman to marry a man who of the same age as her.
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I'm Awrtable, my people don't rush to marriage life.
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Hey Screw :) nice to see you back
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