Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
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Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
I myself am a bit guity of this, I tend to avoid somali girls like the plague the reason being not cause I hate them, don't get me wrong somali girl are the only girl I'll ever give a damn about.
I just don't understand why somali guys & girls love to bash, put down each other and raise up ajnabi's to the sky as if there perfect beings with 0 social issue in there community.
Somali guys & girls seem to be lot more forgiving when it comes non-somali as if they can do no wrong.
Somali guys & girl act like they made it in life if they marry a non-somali like it's some symbol of status.
This is not everyone but I've noticed this quite a bit when hagging around somalis.
I just don't understand why somali guys & girls love to bash, put down each other and raise up ajnabi's to the sky as if there perfect beings with 0 social issue in there community.
Somali guys & girls seem to be lot more forgiving when it comes non-somali as if they can do no wrong.
Somali guys & girl act like they made it in life if they marry a non-somali like it's some symbol of status.
This is not everyone but I've noticed this quite a bit when hagging around somalis.
Last edited by Ak123 on Sat Sep 26, 2015 2:39 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Mods, there is a spillage in aisle number 123 that needs clearing up pronto.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Lolzumaale wrote:Mods, there is a spillage in aisle number 123 that needs clearing up pronto.
Too much nacnac going around today
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
I agree to an extent, in that I observed bits of your 2nd & 3rd paragraph, in real life and on snet. Only applies to a select few self hating folk though.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Reer mudug shukaansi is weird.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
it is called being gob / gracious/courteous , the opposite being guun .Somali guys & girls seem to be lot more forgiving when it comes non-somali as if they can do no wrong.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Why are you guys being soo harsh with him?
OP this is very much due to severe self hate in the community. Lack of Culture & identity perhaps is a factor.
People will force it under a rug and avoid discussing this topic like a plague, becuz they are very insecure. So its no use.
OP this is very much due to severe self hate in the community. Lack of Culture & identity perhaps is a factor.
People will force it under a rug and avoid discussing this topic like a plague, becuz they are very insecure. So its no use.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
To me the error happened centuries ago.
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Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
to be honest my experience with Somali girls have always been positive, they are supportive of us lads and even when we don't deserve it they put us on a pedestal. However lately I see our women being taken by ajnabis and it does leave a bad taste, but we must remember Somali guys started and now the girls are doing it more than the guys, too bad they are more desired by ajnabis then we are. They are known as cheap and clean, actively hunted by both niggas and sand niggas, even the cadaan getting a taste of that Horn afrik puntang.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.
Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Adali wrote:to be honest my experience with Somali girls have always been positive, they are supportive of us lads and even when we don't deserve it they put us on a pedestal. However lately I see our women being taken by ajnabis and it does leave a bad taste, but we must remember Somali guys started and now the girls are doing it more than the guys, too bad they are more desired by ajnabis then we are. They are known as cheap and clean, actively hunted by both niggas and sand niggas, even the cadaan getting a taste of that Horn afrik puntang.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.

Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
I like Somali women, i am trying to Shukaansi this chick from Canada. 
Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Speak for yourself, from my experince of being a somali guy & pretty much most somali guys I know it's crazy dead easy getting white,caribbean,asian,eastern asian ,hispanic, eritrean and north african(moroccan,algerian) girls.the one that tend don't like somali guys from my experience are somali girls,nigerian girls and some ghanaian girls(from what little I've encounterd).Adali wrote:to be honest my experience with Somali girls have always been positive, they are supportive of us lads and even when we don't deserve it they put us on a pedestal. However lately I see our women being taken by ajnabis and it does leave a bad taste, but we must remember Somali guys started and now the girls are doing it more than the guys, too bad they are more desired by ajnabis then we are. They are known as cheap and clean, actively hunted by both niggas and sand niggas, even the cadaan getting a taste of that Horn afrik puntang.
Inshallah we will win our womens hearts back, be gentlemen to them and treat them like your sister.
I don't understand why but irish girls tend to go ga ga for somali guys, I've met plenty of weird ajanbi girls that go exclusively for somali guys, that tends to be because there previous ex was somali.
But still most somali guys would never take a ajanabi girls serious.
Re: Why do somali guys & girls hate and disrespect each other so much?
Blame it on hormonal imbalances, give and take 10 years from now, you'll be singing Somaliyee tooso, tooso isku tiigsadaye midkiina taagdare taagera weliginee. Than gets worse, whenever you run into a sista with tyrone.
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