Halaal Shukansi

[HayWire]

Is it even possible? For example if I am shukansing Tuushi, I would need to go to her house, sit down, she would bring me tea or coffee, her Mom would sit there on the corner given me the side eye with a look on her face like (better not try something fishy) This is impractical and very awkward, it is torture i tell ya

Have any of you tried this method of shukansin, share your experience

Basra you are excluded


after every hardship comes ease

[Fortuna]

I think at this day and age our parents are okay with us "talking" as in dating but not actually dating over the phone. If we are guur doon, they're fine with it (usually moms) though, like they'd know I'm talking to a possible suitor type thing.

And yes, supervised visits or group "dates" lol as long as you keep it halal and si qof sharaf leh, I think it's fine.


The man I was talking to, my parents knew of him, so did siblings, we'd be on the phone for hours and they knew it was the getting to know each other phase. It didn't work out, but no harm was done Alhamdulillah.

[AbdiWahab252]

Haywire,

Adeer, if you mean by parking lot pimpin at the Masjid's parking lot, yes I am guilty as charged. You could also cruise the cafeteria before the Halaqa and you are bound to run into someone that catches your eye. A good technique is to fish by spotting a fish that you know in a nonshukaansi way and cruise up to start a conversation. She is a a good sister, cousin or other nonshukaansi relative, she will introduce you to her friend. You are now no longer strangers but acquaintances and you can chat her up next time.

If you want to go deep in the circuit, become a 'wadaad (i.e. a regular at the masjid, halaqas and hang out with the surwalgab crew, they are always first to spot the fine sisters and seduce them with scripture).

I don't recommend sitting at someone's house and chatting with her infront of her parents. It is awkward and invites constant interference in your future shukaansi with questions like "When are you getting married? What is going on? Why the delay?"

I tried that sitting down nonsense and it was terrible. My habaryar inadvertently put me on this course as I cruised West London for a wife. Most of the sisters were "fronters' pretending to be 'conservative' good girls who zero social life. Yet I could sense there was more to the story than she was letting on.

[HayWire]

I think at this day and age our parents are okay with us "talking" as in dating but not actually dating over the phone. If we are guur doon, they're fine with it (usually moms) though, like they'd know I'm talking to a possible suitor type thing.

And yes, supervised visits or group "dates" lol as long as you keep it halal and si qof sharaf leh, I think it's fine.


The man I was talking to, my parents knew of him, so did siblings, we'd be on the phone for hours and they knew it was the getting to know each other phase. It didn't work out, but no harm was done Alhamdulillah.

How are you going to express your feelings while the mom is sitting there. Imagine saying habibi or honey and the mom says (yaah kusoo eli maha tiri, don't start sheekadas etc) I will be heading for the door

[Vivacious]

Tushi you heard him

[HayWire]

Haywire,

Adeer, if you mean by parking lot pimpin at the Masjid's parking lot, yes I am guilty as charged. You could also cruise the cafeteria before the Halaqa and you are bound to run into someone that catches your eye. A good technique is to fish by spotting a fish that you know in a nonshukaansi way and cruise up to start a conversation. She is a a good sister, cousin or other nonshukaansi relative, she will introduce you to her friend. You are now no longer strangers but acquaintances and you can chat her up next time.

If you want to go deep in the circuit, become a 'wadaad (i.e. a regular at the masjid, halaqas and hang out with the surwalgab crew, they are always first to spot the fine sisters and seduce them with scripture).

I don't recommend sitting at someone's house and chatting with her infront of her parents. It is awkward and invites constant interference in your future shukaansi with questions like "When are you getting married? What is going on? Why the delay?"

I tried that sitting down nonsense and it was terrible. My habaryar inadvertently put me on this course as I cruised West London for a wife. Most of the sisters were "fronters' pretending to be 'conservative' good girls who zero social life. Yet I could sense there was more to the story than she was letting on.

Adeer
parking lot pimping, and other traditional dating methods are easy, but going to her house is whole another ball game. Now I have to decline the offer, too complicated. I just find the idea awkward

[HayWire]

Tushi you heard him

damn you vivs ilfur. Now Tuushi will disapear for a month, now she will be like

[Vivacious]

Tushi you heard him

damn you vivs ilfur. Now Tuushi will disapear for a month, now she will be like

Not really. The Tushi I know can handle this very well

[HayWire]

I am dead man walking

[AbdiWahab252]

Haywire

Adeer have no fear at all. Go for it! A faint heart never won a fair lady. If you are feeling awkward or nervous bring your representative like Sheik Abdiwahab Al Hagawi. I can play interference while you chat the daughter up.

[MujahidAishah]

Don't take AW he probably went out with the mum

[Fortuna]

Lol if her mom is so close she can hear you then you know she *might* be a meddling mother. Bad idea.

[Garaad_LQ]

So nowadays all you need is the to stamp it on anything you want or desire

[Thuganomics]

Basra you are excluded

She's like that retarded auntie ee caruurta laga ilaaliyo

[Tuushi]