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Somalis and their lack of parenting skills.

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There about 8 Somali families with kids in our subdivision. These kids play soccer on the parking lot and hit people's cars.

Last week i witnessed two lil sheydaamo playing near my car and and had to yell at them to get away. The lil wecelo than mouthed off to me and walked away.

Today after going outside i saw 4 lil ones playing outside again and had to yell at them to get away.

Later tonight i am going over to their parents home and tell them to keep these menacing kids to stop playing around cars.

One of the family is a recent arrival from either Kenya or Somalia. And they have the worst attitude. Wax ka dabeecad xun weligeey ma arkin.

It might be normal to destroy other people's personal property in Africa, but not here in the US.
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GAMES wrote:There about 8 Somali families with kids in our subdivision. These kids play soccer on the parking lot and hit people's cars.

Last week i witnessed two lil sheydaamo playing near my car and and had to yell at them to get away. The lil wecelo than mouthed off to me and walked away.

Today after going outside i saw 4 lil ones playing outside again and had to yell at them to get away.

Later tonight i am going over to their parents home and tell them to keep these menacing kids to stop playing around cars.

One of the family is a recent arrival from either Kenya or Somalia. And they have the worst attitude. Wax ka dabeecad xun weligeey ma arkin.

It might be normal to destroy other people's personal property in Africa, but not here in the US.
They will soon learn that things like that do not fly in the west. It's a pity that often times these families have to learn these lessons the hard way. When one of their children go missing, or they all turn into useless gangster wannabes!
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Let the kids alone. :ufdup:
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Let them be. There is so much u can do in a tiny house. Let kids be kids.
Maybe help them. Approach them in a friendly manner and engage. Yelling at them isnt gonna help anyone including you.
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And here we thought You only acted weird on the net :lol: , ma ciyaal xaafadka ayaad melahas ku qayl qaylisaa. I would beat the crap outta you if I saw you doing that to my little cusinz playing outside. :lol:

There is nothing more unnatural than kids stuck in tiny dingy social housing, so good on them kids having a kick about in the hood. Murraayadaha inay ka jajabiyaan quufta yar eed wadatid ayay ahayd waliba
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My older ones play opposite my kitchen window on a bit of green grass let the kids be kids you grumpy fuck
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You're gonna end up some old decrepit miserable codger
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War dadkani waba imtixaan.war yaab badana.

Are you seriously contemplating going to islaamo houses and snitching on little children?

Knee grow,there are only two ways to deal with children:in ay ka Baqaan(respectful fear) ama you befriend them.

Since the children clearly do not respect you as a man,I would suggest that you give them baad money and sweets on every Friday.tell them that they can play in the car park as long as it is not near your car.jimaca kastana baad bixi,in the form of sweets and money.
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BaastoUnit wrote:War dadkani waba imtixaan.war yaab badana.

Are you seriously contemplating going to islaamo houses and snitching on little children?

Knee grow,there are only two ways to deal with children:in ay ka Baqaan(respectful fear) ama you befriend them.

Since the children clearly do not respect you as a man,I would suggest that you give them baad money and sweets on every Friday.tell them that they can play in the car park as long as it is not near your car.jimaca kastana baad bixi,in the form of sweets and money.
the same baad that he used to give to his iidoor school mates eeh :lol:
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:lol: @ baad bixi..baasto children are clever and will not be satisfied with candy.

Games, i suggest you befriend them and play with them.Waxaad tusta meelaha lagu ciyaaro..kubad yar oo so iibi oo maalin kasta saacad la ciyaar.Walaahi ajar weyn ba ku kordhaya.Markaad guriga ku si socotaan ice cream yar oo ibii oo la tali.Caruurto qaylo waxba kuma qaadato, waano ayey wax qaatan iyo naxariis iyo hadal qaboob.

Stop being so uptight and remember how you were at their age.You're only a child once in ur life, let them have fun.
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Talk to the parents. If that fails, call the management company. If that fails, lodge a complaint with the local PD.
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Waryaa GAMES, what are you doing in the project, settled through low-income and Section-8 housing? Let the kids of the new Somali refugees play wherever they can. If they go to the park, those AA kids are gonna gang up on them, so let them find a spot around their houses. Or try to educate them about being considerate and make sure they stay clear from cars.
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Lol @ little shaydaamo, istaqfurullah

Kids can be mischievous little creatures, but it's ok they're just being kids.

I do however think we have our share of bad parenting in our community and it shows when they're out and about. some Somali kids at social gatherings, let loose while their mothers are mingling amongst themselves, having a good time and not a care of how their little ones are causing havoc,
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People shouldnt have children just because they can.
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TheFuturist wrote:People shouldnt have children just because they can.
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