How do people get married??

[Haanii]

Hi guys,

Long time lurker. I've been reading this forum for a while and was wondering if my brothers and sisters in somalinimo can help a sister out. I just graduated uni and settling into the work life but I think It's finally time for me to settle down and have a family. Problem is...i have no idea how to go about finding a spouse. To give you guys some backstory I've always been a good girl who never gave guys no mind because I was busy with bettering myself and my family. Alhamdulilah now that I've achieved my education and career goals I'm open to meeting someone for the sake of marriage but where all the good somalis at??

[TheLoFather]

Can someone please help the sister in 'somalinimo" and give her Sumubaridis contact details? ... she seems like she can manage to buy her own bed and furaash which will please Sumu

[Geeljire252]

Can someone please help the sister in 'somalinimo" and give her Sumubaridis contact details? ... she seems like she can manage to buy her own bed and furaash which will please Sumu

[Raganimo]

Do you live in an area with few Somalis?

[Macarons]

Hi guys,

Long time lurker. I've been reading this forum for a while and was wondering if my brothers and sisters in somalinimo can help a sister out. I just graduated uni and settling into the work life but I think It's finally time for me to settle down and have a family. Problem is...i have no idea how to go about finding a spouse. To give you guys some backstory I've always been a good girl who never gave guys no mind because I was busy with bettering myself and my family. Alhamdulilah now that I've achieved my education and career goals I'm open to meeting someone for the sake of marriage but where all the good somalis at??

It can be perplexing when you hit that stage but have zero experience. Don't fret too much. I'd advise you to speak to your mother as she's probably thought about it already and should have a few ideas up her sleeve. Some go to weddings for purpose of meeting someone, if you have the guts you may try that. Some just get proposed to directly by those who know your family, ideally this would be best as it involves the least effort. Also, many people go to the masjid;speak to some influential sisters there so they get to the Imaam to make it known you're available and what you want. I'm not sure how it works exactly but give it a try. And lastly, make dua, have realistic standards and never lose dignity. Marriage is not our end goal but just one means out of many to succeed in this test called life.

[Raganimo]

^sound advice.

Also, if you have friends who are married they can help you through their husband's network.

[PureQ]

Tinder

[smartyt]

Tinder

Nah only a bunch of horny guys will chase her on Tinder

[Raganimo]

Tinder

Don't listen to this thot

[GalliumerianSlayer]

What is your clan?

[AwRastaale]

Let's exchange numbers and let me fire my Buk missile before Russia fires its S-400 and ends this journey for us and the wider world.

I fire a lot. Always on target. Boom boom boom.

Congrats on your achievements.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Lol@ the title ... My sista fil somalinimo hit me up, I'll give u some good tips, advice

[Twist]

Sumubaridi's latest account? This goddamn place is dead af!

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Sumubaridi's latest account? This goddamn place is dead af!

you and sumu Maxa ni kala haysta

[Hyperactive]

lol twist, leave Sumu alone. qof walba dibatada adounka mel bey ka heysta. isaka danka haweynka ayey ka haysata.