Question #1: how did he get access to that "info"?
I have a theory. It is well known here on sspot that AJ was gay, he also admits that. Ahmed Nur Said Elmi is gay (google his name, pic posted below). Now AJ and Elmi must have been in a romantic gay relationship whereby Elmi dropped the damn info.
Question #2: why did Elmi disclose the "info" to AJ?
This one is easy: Elmi's ex-wife found out that he is gay. So she divorced him. To get back at his ex, Elmi, disclosed the damning "info" to AJ. Elmi was basically jealousy and wanted to bring down her ex-wife.
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