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Marriage proposal, what's the best way to get the other half

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When do u propose for marriage and what type is the best to go for. And how can you tell if the other person is ready to commit to get married?
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SuldaanOfSanaag wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 4:23 pm When do u propose for marriage and what type is the best to go for. And how can you tell if the other person is ready to commit to get married?
You propose when you think both of you has something in common and both of you are happy with each other.
Ask her that question of marriage the sooner the better.
But you need to ask her questions on what she wants with her life.
Be genuine no need to lie to her be yourself.
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You propose when you feel like it.

You can tell they're ready for marriage if they reply with an affirmitive when you ask. Assuming they're mature to begin with.

Trust me man, just keep it simple :up:
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Wrong section
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It depends on how long you have been dating her. You need to have at least 2 years before proposing. Take your time and make sure there are no accidents. Nothing is worse than a shot gun wedding
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Good topic.
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Django wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 4:46 pm
SuldaanOfSanaag wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 4:23 pm When do u propose for marriage and what type is the best to go for. And how can you tell if the other person is ready to commit to get married?
You propose when you think both of you has something in common and both of you are happy with each other.
Ask her that question of marriage the sooner the better.
But you need to ask her questions on what she wants with her life.
Be genuine no need to lie to her be yourself.
Yh reason I asked is because alot of members are married/were so I gather they have some useful information :up:
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GeoSeven wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 5:11 pm You propose when you feel like it.

You can tell they're ready for marriage if they reply with an affirmitive when you ask. Assuming they're mature to begin with.

Trust me man, just keep it simple :up:
Yep I think your right honesty and simply are the best way. Marriage use to scare me foe a reason because all the things that you have to do. It's not just so simple but kheir brother
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Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 5:20 pm Wrong section
I thought I can post in the generally
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One thing I found out that people should get married young around 18 to 25 best time like our prophet scw
Said.
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Nubis wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 11:06 pmGood topic.
Thanks. :up: Are you Nubian queen by any chance?
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Yes, I got it changed.
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Bismillah

Horta Awalbaa la yiri labo waxey ku khayr badan yihiin marka la degdejiyo

Getting Married when the Pair is Found
And Burying the Dead.

Horta when i got married, there wasnt really alot of barrier
Qabiil ahan we were the same
Deegaan ahan we were both reer london
And Hanti ahan, Alhamdulilah we were both doing very well.

Horta if youre mature then alhamdulilah everything else will fall into place.

And your question is hows the best way to propose.
Ninyahow Soomaalidu waa dhaqan dheer yihiin.

We dont only propose to the girl,we propose to the Family.
Gabadha is pretty simple, if youve been at it for while ,just buss the question
Naa Heedhe , Inaan Aqal Dhisaan Doonayaaye, Maad Igu Tagtid.

Secondly Famliyga.
The close Tribally the easier laakin waxaas ha u bixin Somaalidu weligood bey isu geedhfadhiisan jidhey.
Khamiis iyo Cimaamad soo Xiro
Odeyo Macawiis Guntana soo Kaxeyso
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SuldaanOfSanaag wrote: Mon Sep 16, 2019 4:23 pm When do u propose for marriage As soon as you have clicked with her

and what type is the best to go for. type of girl ? the baby making type should be your primary goal, wide hips, healthy physique etc she can be wild and selfish but her innate nurturing side will kick in when she get pregnant...... if you mean type of proposal, simple direct question in person, no flowers, no food, no coffee is necessary

And how can you tell if the other person is ready to commit to get married? don't worry yourself lad, women are very control freaks about how they are perceived by you and wider society, ask her the question and do not accept anything short of a "yes"
there you go :up: :up: :D
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most girls are hoes these days so firsly try to find real wifey material dont care much about her look iyo gabar shidan rather her diin/dhaqan ans moral qualities. safe some good money. when you find the girl give it a time like 4 months. in this time take her out and la dhaqan know about her every thing and her family situstion. when you are sure that you can deal with her situation and background like her family go for it that makes it 6 months for a successful marriage and if you knew her family like me it will take lesser than that.
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