The main enemy of marriage??
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The main enemy of marriage??
Zina (adultery/fornication)!
It is one of the worst and most disgraceful sins. Zina is to voluntarily and knowingly perform unlawful sexual intercourse, sex before marriage.
Zina is one of the most major sins. It has been prohibited by the religions through the ages.
A Painful Punishment in This Life:
Under the Islamic jurisdiction, a person committing zina is liable to a very severe punishment. For a single person committing fornication, his punishment is specified in the Qur'an: "The woman or man found guilty of zina, flog each one of them with a hundred lashes. Let not pity for them withhold you from applying the ruling of Allah - if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment."
Deserting Those who Commit it:
Filthy individuals guilty of zina are only worthy of filthy mates like themselves. On the other hand, good and purified individuals are worthy of good mates like themselves. Allah says: "Evil women (and words) are for evil men, and evil men are for evil women. And good women (and words) are for good men, and good men are for good women - such are declared innocent from what they (the slanders) say, and for them is forgiveness and generous provision (from Allah)." (24:26)
It is one of the worst and most disgraceful sins. Zina is to voluntarily and knowingly perform unlawful sexual intercourse, sex before marriage.
Zina is one of the most major sins. It has been prohibited by the religions through the ages.
A Painful Punishment in This Life:
Under the Islamic jurisdiction, a person committing zina is liable to a very severe punishment. For a single person committing fornication, his punishment is specified in the Qur'an: "The woman or man found guilty of zina, flog each one of them with a hundred lashes. Let not pity for them withhold you from applying the ruling of Allah - if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment."
Deserting Those who Commit it:
Filthy individuals guilty of zina are only worthy of filthy mates like themselves. On the other hand, good and purified individuals are worthy of good mates like themselves. Allah says: "Evil women (and words) are for evil men, and evil men are for evil women. And good women (and words) are for good men, and good men are for good women - such are declared innocent from what they (the slanders) say, and for them is forgiveness and generous provision (from Allah)." (24:26)
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.... im going down
Me and mah baby daddy had sex before we got married...
IM GOING DOWN


Me and mah baby daddy had sex before we got married...
IM GOING DOWN



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“To feel remorse for one’s sin is a step towards repentance; and one who has repented of a sin is like someone who has never sinned at all!â€Â
Princess lick sis first of all repent to Allah swt, truly repent to Allah swt!
It is a good sign that you feel deep remorse and sorrow for your misbehavior in the past. You should be glad to know that Allah is All-Forgiving and All-Merciful. He has promised forgiveness to all sinners, no matter how ugly their sins, once they have taken the necessary steps towards sincere repentance.
Princess lick sis first of all repent to Allah swt, truly repent to Allah swt!
It is a good sign that you feel deep remorse and sorrow for your misbehavior in the past. You should be glad to know that Allah is All-Forgiving and All-Merciful. He has promised forgiveness to all sinners, no matter how ugly their sins, once they have taken the necessary steps towards sincere repentance.
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[quote="young@muslim"]“To feel remorse for one’s sin is a step towards repentance; and one who has repented of a sin is like someone who has never sinned at all!â€Â
Princess lick sis first of all repent to Allah swt, truly repent to Allah swt!
It is a good sign that you feel deep remorse and sorrow for your misbehavior in the past. You should be glad to know that Allah is All-Forgiving and All-Merciful. He has promised forgiveness to all sinners, no matter how ugly their sins, once they have taken the necessary steps towards sincere repentance.[/quote]...
That touched me somewhere deep...i really feeeeeeeel SO0O BAD...for what i've done..and i can see how it has effected my life..... I HAVE EVEN consisders going abroad and being wiped 100...to get rid of these sins....
what should i do....
i'd would like to ask my brother for forgiveness he died in 2004 and died dissapointed in me...n it hurts and haunts me....im going to change my life inshallah but how do i ask for forgiveness?
w/salam
Princess lick sis first of all repent to Allah swt, truly repent to Allah swt!
It is a good sign that you feel deep remorse and sorrow for your misbehavior in the past. You should be glad to know that Allah is All-Forgiving and All-Merciful. He has promised forgiveness to all sinners, no matter how ugly their sins, once they have taken the necessary steps towards sincere repentance.[/quote]...

what should i do....
i'd would like to ask my brother for forgiveness he died in 2004 and died dissapointed in me...n it hurts and haunts me....im going to change my life inshallah but how do i ask for forgiveness?
w/salam
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I HAVE EVEN consisders going abroad and being wiped 100...to get rid of these sins....
Wow, sis first of all i can see that you are in remorse, ok people are kind of confuse on the whole repentance issue, after one committed a sin they think, What now? Do i say i repent and i be forgiven?
The first is an act of the heart, to sincerely regret the sins of the past. The second is an act of the body, to bring up some good deeds, starting two cycles of prayer of repentance.
A HADITH..
Hazrat Abu Bakr radiyallahu anhu, says, "I heard the Holy Prophet sallallahu alaihe wasallam say, ‘There isn’t a man who, when he commits a sin, rises, makes ablution, and offers two rak’ats of prayers, but Allah forgives his sins.’ Then the Holy Prophet sallallahu alaihe wasallam recited the verse, ‘Those (are the true believers) who, when they commit an evil deed, or wrong their souls, remember Allah, and seek forgiveness for their sins - and who but Allah forgives sins? They do not insist upon the sins they have committed, and they know (that Allah is forgiving)."
(Qur'aan 3:135)
Sis do the following:
do the ablution well includes saying the Bismillah in the beginning, and some other prayer words after it such as:
"I bear witness that there is no deity save Allah , the one, and I also bear witness that Muhammad is his slave and messenger."
"O’ Allah! make me of the repenting, and make me of the purified."
"O’ Allah! with praises to you I bear witness that there is no deity but you. I seek your forgiveness and turn to you in repentance."
2. Offer two rak’ats of prayer. Performs them in full presence of mind and heart. Commits no mistake within the prayers. Does not speak to himself within them. Recites the prayer-words in them well and in humility. Then seeks Allah’s forgiveness.
Inshallah it will help remember Allah swt is the most merciful, ask for his mercy!
Wow, sis first of all i can see that you are in remorse, ok people are kind of confuse on the whole repentance issue, after one committed a sin they think, What now? Do i say i repent and i be forgiven?
The first is an act of the heart, to sincerely regret the sins of the past. The second is an act of the body, to bring up some good deeds, starting two cycles of prayer of repentance.
A HADITH..
Hazrat Abu Bakr radiyallahu anhu, says, "I heard the Holy Prophet sallallahu alaihe wasallam say, ‘There isn’t a man who, when he commits a sin, rises, makes ablution, and offers two rak’ats of prayers, but Allah forgives his sins.’ Then the Holy Prophet sallallahu alaihe wasallam recited the verse, ‘Those (are the true believers) who, when they commit an evil deed, or wrong their souls, remember Allah, and seek forgiveness for their sins - and who but Allah forgives sins? They do not insist upon the sins they have committed, and they know (that Allah is forgiving)."
(Qur'aan 3:135)
Sis do the following:
do the ablution well includes saying the Bismillah in the beginning, and some other prayer words after it such as:
"I bear witness that there is no deity save Allah , the one, and I also bear witness that Muhammad is his slave and messenger."
"O’ Allah! make me of the repenting, and make me of the purified."
"O’ Allah! with praises to you I bear witness that there is no deity but you. I seek your forgiveness and turn to you in repentance."
2. Offer two rak’ats of prayer. Performs them in full presence of mind and heart. Commits no mistake within the prayers. Does not speak to himself within them. Recites the prayer-words in them well and in humility. Then seeks Allah’s forgiveness.
Inshallah it will help remember Allah swt is the most merciful, ask for his mercy!
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