Love sceptic--How?--Experts in love-come in.

[Mowhawk]

Another love topic.

How does one fall in love? You see a cute single girl, or (a guy for the girls) doing o.k in life with similar values and your first chat went well which many consider the first impression to be always important, and that is what "expert-lovers" call it same chemistry. If you wait longer, you see a better one, and then a bomb one, then an atomic one, goes on.

I dont get it. I'm getting older and the girls I like are getting younger, scary. Are there other marriage phoebics like me out there? Maybe, I should volunteer to be locked in a house like Big Brother with Basra and another girl for Three years, I will definately come out as a responsible and caring dad and husband, offcourse by marrying the other chick.

I dont want to be single forever like Gurey, Binni, Cawar, LionHeart, Costa , Abdiwahab, Biko and Lugoyo. All the single adult males, I didnt explicitly offend here, consider yourself in this list.

My apologies to Basra by using her as an analogy.

Help us all settle down and never be divorced.

[1nemansquad]

A great deal of lolling dude, whatÂ’s with that? Meesha dhan baa lol baa uga baxdey!

amma allow the Xalimo's help you out with this one

[The-Screw]

i think its smart by mentioning the all stars of the forum so they reply and the topic grows. but going back to your issue at hand, the only thing that i can say is that if you can afford to settle down, do it. stop waiting, its not that hard to find a good hearted xalimo, and yes a virgin one too if thats what you like. seriously man, its like you said, the older you get the younger the girls you like start to get, i cant even imagine what'll go through your head when you're 29 and some 19 year old xalimo catches your eye.

dude, settle down already.

[BLUE RUSH]

i've noticed the older a man gets the younger the girls go for are. but when these boys were younger the couldn't stand young girls.

for example my brothers friend never had the hots for me until i hit puberty .

listen Mowhawk if you get married now or yrs later you will still have a wondering eye for young fresh blooded girls .

[Basra-]

This is an outrageous blantant proposal to me. Waryaa---- i am married-- leave me alone! Marry --Nabeela--she is fat & lonely.

[Nabeela]

I think someone is going through some serious life changes right now, boo.

"How does one fall in love?"

Yep another day, another love topic. I don't think anyone can explain love, unless you've been there. I assume it's love because out of all the people in the world, there is no other person you'd rather be with, than him/her. And according to my friends, if it's love, that you are experiencing you just know. There's absolutely no way to confuse it with anything else.

"I dont get it. I'm getting older and the girls I like are getting younger, scary"

I don't think age matters, unless the girl is 18 and younger, than you got a problem. My uncle is 40ish and he married a woman who is 28, this past summer, and they are very happy together. If you're happy with the other person, then I see nothing wrong with it.

"If you wait longer, you see a better one, and then a bomb one, then an atomic one, goes on"

Marmar, when you meet the right person, you'd know immediately that you want to marry this preson. If you find the right Xalimo and you know that you are ready, emotionally and mentally, markaa go for it.

Mabye you are marriage phoebic, because you might have issues that you need to work through before, settling down, like, school, career, financial, past loves/lovers, khaat, unromantic, which is a typical farax trait, etc. Or maybe you just are not ready PERIOD.

Long story short. You are dommed.

Basra, hey babe.

[*HannaH*]

You can't just settle down, to settle down. Eeryone falls in lovw at some point or another, just wait till you do. What's the rush?

[Nagin]

If you are ready for it..then ..go for it...

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Mo,

Howdy mate....long time, huh?

Caashaq haween waa horaa Caadil soo rogaye
Sayidkii carshiga fuulay iyo Caliba soo gaadhye
Caruurtay sideen meesha iyo ciise nabigiiye
Cidla lagama Beermeen dadkoo cuuddi waaxida e
Waxa qaarba cayn looga dhigay hays cajabiyeene
Soomaalidaa caado xune iguma caydeene



The days of falling in love is gone, Cilmi Boodhari was the last of it's victims, nowadays everything is about interest and materialistic, emotions are suppressed, feelings are ignored and everything is based on mutual interest, that is why ppl no longer fall in love, even the word itself is vanishing gradually and disappearing just like the sentiment.

If you think time is catching up with your old self, just look for a Xalimo to settle down with, regardless of having any passion for her. As long as she has a nice tail, two melons and a face that doesn't need a handkerchief, she is good to go, plus, can she cook and feed your chicken ribs? Everything else will fall into place just a jigsaw puzzle

[AbdiWahab252]

Mohawk: I understand how u feel. I am not single due to just for the heck of it. There were certain goals and milestones that I have had to accomplish before I would sit down to think about settling down.

Now that they have been accomplished, i am keeping an eye out for the right one. On the issue of love, you first off all have to get find a lot of common ground betweeb you and the woman: religiousness, financial, familial (not qabiil but how your families interact), independence (thinking, personal space).

About the younger women, I agree. I once went out with this woman who was 19 and I was about 26. She was the most adorable, sweetheart I ever met. Something about the respect and humility some younger women have. Plus, Mohawk, nothing beats having a dyme piece on your arm and your friends see u. Jealousy is a b.tch

[Gacalisa]

maybe you should start looking for older women.

[Nagin]

^^^ older women ..naaaa.they to bossy...girl dont you get it ..he is looking for someone fresh out of ...boat...

[AbdiWahab252]

Gacliisa: Older women are for younger men. An older woman will educate a brother on how women think and what to do & not to do.

After accumulating all said knowledge, that is when we focus on younger women

[Nabeela]

I'm all for--Older men--Younger Women.

[Basra-]

Aqaas!