Death

Cadeey · Post by **Cadeey** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:27 pm

Yes for once I will refrain from qabil talk. No mention of my great wonderful qabil. I promise. Laughing

How often do you think about death? I mean I constantly think about it wherever I go. I think about if I am at uni at work or in my bed, itÂ’s always on my mind. I am scared of death, not death itself rather the pain and the possibility that I might go to hell since heaven is not guaranteed to me. My older sister recently gave birth I asked her how it felt like to give birth, she said it felt like she had died and she had come back. How is she supposed to known how it feels to die? Does pain and death corrulate?
Am I crazy to think about death as much as I do? (and No I am not depressed).
May be Allah loves me and this is a sign from him. The prophet did say an intelligent man is the one who constantly thinks about death.
So I must be intelligent. Laughing

But than doesnt ease my constant headache about this subject. No close family members I know have died to trigger this fear of death that I have.
How should I stop thinking about death , not that thinking about death is a mental disorder lol. I shall seek refuge with Allah from the whisperings of Shaiytaan. But is this going to help me get over my fear?

Samatr · Post by **Samatr** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:35 pm

Aakhiro baa loo wada socdaa, ajar uu shaqayso baan kuu odhan lahaa.

Ashlee~ · Post by **Ashlee~** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:42 pm

You must be doing something sinful inorder for you to be thinking about death?

Cawar · Post by **Cawar** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:42 pm

And this makes you giggle???

Demure · Post by **Demure** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:43 pm

Cadeey, don't worry the flawless gene will continue on after you Laughing

I sometimes think of death more than other times. It's natural to be fearful of the unknown.

dhuusa_deer · Post by **dhuusa_deer** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:49 pm

Strangely, I NEVER think of death. Not even when I'm in mortal danger.

Caddeey, where is hell and heaven?

Kramer · Post by **Kramer** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:53 pm

I notice when thing --when I got all my prayers and all my other religious duties get done well --I don't fear or worry about death

but when I'm not on the right path, or I'm skipping prayers --then I start to worry about death.

so go back to religion!

Cadeey · Post by **Cadeey** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:17 pm

Ashlee? whatever. I am not commiting any major sin so I am save. Although minor sins can mount to a mountain.

Demure-Hunno , I will have to leave behind beautiful pious xawaadle children who will constantly pray for me. But I am not sure they will. I rarely pray for my dead grandparents. I mean I never meet them. May allah jhave mercy on them.

DD-Maskiin. I will pray for you. I will even be nice enough to come and visit you while you rot inthe pit of hell fire. Surely not only then will you regret your kaafirnima , you will also know the location of hell and the conditions for why anyone will be there.

Ashlee~ · Post by **Ashlee~** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:21 pm

Cadeey.......................I feel like your holding something back? maybe that's where your sins are pouring from!!

dhuusa_deer · Post by **dhuusa_deer** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:22 pm

Cadeey, according to you the blind should lead the blind, is that it? How can you convince of Hell and Heaven if you yourself can't show me where they are?

Cawar · Post by **Cawar** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:22 pm

Ashlee

I know what she is holding back...what she doesnt know is that she needs not to shere those private moments with anyone else.. Laughing

Well...except for those who were present. Very Happy

Cadeey · Post by **Cadeey** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:31 pm

DD- As a muslimah. I am pleased with Allah as my lord Islam as my religion and Muhammed peace and blessing be upon him as my prophet. I am instructed to believe in 'unseen'alqayb. And Allah (swt) , the angles and the heaven and hell are all part of the unseen. To be a muslim you have to believe in all the above. And I do without any hesitation , for I fear if I dont believe like you I will suffer a great punishment on the day of resurrection. I care about my life in the here after. I ask Allah not to make me among the misguided ones that are dumb deaf and blind. The difference between me and you is like the difference between the living and the non living. So you might as well commit suicide. No point in you living.

Ashlee~ · Post by **Ashlee~** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:39 pm

[quote="Cawar"]Ashlee

I know what she is holding back...what she doesnt know is that she needs not to shere those private moments with anyone else.. Laughing

Well...except for those who were present. Very Happy

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dhuusa_deer · Post by **dhuusa_deer** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:40 pm

[quote="Cadeey"] I am instructed to believe in 'unseen'alqayb. And Allah (swt) , the angles and the heaven and hell are all part of the unseen. To be a muslim you have to believe in all the above. [quote]

That's fine but let me ask you this. What criteria have you used to reject all the other vying "unseen" worlds endorsed by many of the world's religions? Why settle with Islam's and not Hinduism's afterlife?

Cadeey · Post by **Cadeey** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:54 pm

DD- Get help. You are munaafiq kabiir. Laughing

May allah guide you. Seek refuge with Allah so you can paralyze the cunning ways of the shaydaan.