being a virgin

[A_I]

som woman i know is 33... wears a xijaab...24/7 completely covered

i always hear from family n friends (gossip) dat shes never touched a male ... apart from her family (who she cant marry)

she was raised here... her reason 4 not being marrid is... ALLAH will giv her somtin betta in janna...

she hopes 2 remain untouched (not even a kiss or a hug) until she dies.

... my question is... DOES SHE GET THINGS EVEN BETTA IN JANNA?

[**weezy**]

only allah will know this..................u cant ask a question liek dat

unless you asking for opinions

[Newboy]

be a virgin doesnt get you to go Janna... thats all i can say..

[STREET_SWEEPERR]

kmt

[lady biggle]

nah
shes jus bare stush
cos when u get married its like u've completed half ur diin
someone should tell her
n the fact that u know this makes her intentions seem wrong cos why she tellin everyone

[*BAIT*]

BUT ITS HARAAM NOT TO GET MARRIED FOR NO REASON. THE REASON FOR US TO B ON THIS EARTH IS TO REPRODUCE AND WORSHIP ALLAH. NOT STAY SINGLE
GO GET SOME EDUCATION IN THE DEEN

[BushMan]

do you have her digits?

am looking for a virgin.

it is a rare commodity these days (well, excluding 11 year olds)

[Enemy_Of_Mad_Mullah]

Allah has created men and women as company for one another, and so that they can procreate and live in peace and tranquillity according to the commandments of Allah and the directions of His Messenger. The Qur'an says:

And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect. (30:21)
And Allah has made for you your mates of your own nature, and made for you, out of them, sons and daughters and grandchildren, and provided for you sustenance of the best. (16:72)
These verses of the Noble Qur'an clearly show that in contrast to other religions like Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism etc. which consider celibacy or monasticism as a great virtue and a means of salvation, Islam considers marriage as one of the most virtuous and approved institutions. The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) declared, "There is no monasticism in Islam." He further ordained,

"O you young men! Whoever is able to marry should marry, for that will help him to lower his gaze and guard his modesty." (Al-Bukhari)

[Lil_Cutie..]

Salaamu Caleykum.

I can't believe that, Haraam straight up. There is a distinct division between DUNYA and JANNAH ofcourse. But Allah is merciful and wants us to enjoy this dunya in a Halal way, a way that will get us closer to paradise. So by her 'saving' yourself in this world something which is halaal is totally unpracticle. She will not get the rewards she desires and that which Allah would have for her. (Allah knows best!). Her INTENSIONS are all wrong. Subxanallah.. Marriage is a blessing from Allah, our Nabi encouraged it to those who can get married to do so as soon as we can.

Surah 9. Repentance, Dispensation
32. Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, Allah will give them means out of His grace: for Allah encompasseth all, and he knoweth all things.

33. Let those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah gives them means out of His grace. And if any of your slaves ask for a deed in writing (to enable them to earn their freedom for a certain sum), give them such a deed if ye know any good in them: yea, give them something yourselves out of the means which Allah has given to you. But force not your maids to prostitution when they desire chastity, in order that ye may make a gain in the goods of this life. But if anyone compels them, yet, after such compulsion, is Allah, Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to them),



& ALLAH KNOWS BEST!

Wa Salaam

[military-mind]

Ooook my turn Now..
if this lady is Somali then theres 1 answer.
when she says i dont want no man to lay a finger on me cos Allah(swt) will give her some thing better in jannah? thats just her excuse for not being married its an excuse..
cos For a Muslim and a Somali woman not to be married at 33 come on Misskisnada didnt have no body knockin at her door.

i say allow da woman..lool
or she could be undercover

[Lil_Cutie..]

No body knocking at the door? I know of a few women who arent married in thier 40's.. & for them it's because they've been so caught up in making a life for themselves, i.e. work.Subxanallah!!! They forgot or missed the opportunity.
InshaAllah with Allah's grace she will realise! & They will find someone. InshaAllah.

[military-mind]

[quote="Lil_Cutie.."]No body knocking at the door? I know of a few women who arent married in thier 40's.. & for them it's because they've been so caught up in making a life for themselves, i.e. work.Subxanallah!!! They forgot or missed the opportunity.
InshaAllah with Allah's grace she will realise! & They will find someone. InshaAllah.[/quote]

no woman can forget that she needs to be married and a woman cant knock on a mans door it just that they still waitin for the train to come

[Lil_Cutie..]

Well the trains passed them then Looool.. Istagfurulaah!! Or their picky.

[Life_Death]

Islam is an easy religion to follow....We should follow the prophets examples...

Narrated Anas bin Malik:

A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet asking how the Prophet worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever." Allah's Apostle came to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers)."

CANNON