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firefly, if its true what you are saying then masha allah. U do what u say, and say what u do

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as for the others....i want people to talk out of experience, because we can all get holy and wrap ourselves with rules and the usual daughter-sister analogies.

firefly,

I am talking about just innocent get-to-know-each-other time with a girl,,,do u also need to go to the parents of the girl to ask permission? So i should go to every girls parents to first ask persmission to have some get-to-know-each-other-time with their girl?

Anyways, be honest (real ...

look playing music outloud and undecent clothes is against public order


but flirting? is normal.......they should seek attention as long as they dont cross the line

what do u mean with ruined?

so if someone sees u with a guy just walking/talking and maybe laughing its a crime?


its hypocricy, cause why would one be afraid of others while allah sees u 24/7? If a girl says she wont do dating or talking to guys out of deen,,,,i understand....but if she says: i ...

normal?

Well i dont think so...but it is a lesser crime then walking and talking on the street though...ofcourse thats according to our nowadays perverted dhaqan in the west.

The-Screw wrote:b/c these are the times we live in and i didn't make the rules, chivalry died centuries ago.

Thats what I mean....we need to use our brains.

My story Is none of ur busin but one thing is for sure i would never jepordize my reputation for a simpel farax.

What if this is not a ''simple faarax'' but the one that makes u happy and is the one who'll make u happy once the deal is settled? Would u take the risk?

Salam alaikum

everytime you go out with a abaayo halimo behind her parents back you are betraying them and abayao halimo betraying her parents when she sneaks out from behind their back to see her aboowe farah....i do always tell my brother that i blah blah blah with ina hebel :lol: i... no ...

My sister is married siidii luu guursaday guriigeeda maan tagiin ka warran

how rude...so weligaa ma soo salaamin your sister and brother-in-law? How rude and unislamic to not visit the ones close to u.

would you buy a car without test driving it or without a carfax report? i didn't think so, dude...screen the chick for all the crazy xalimo symptoms before you take her to your mom.

i hope u mean non-sexual ''testdriving'' cuz the word sounds so sexual.

but it seems like u understand my case..u ...

the usual duaghter-sister story. Wll if my sister or daughter would talk on the phone and occasionaly drink thee or cofee with a guy who is at least educated, has job, and is good to her...i would invite the guy out and stimulate them to go to the next level :up:

Anyways, helwaa what is your story ...

I know somali and islam dhaqan and sharci is to go to the parents of a girl and ask her hand or the chance to get to know her...but does this apply in presentdat too?

For example, lets say u know a girl (around 18) she is still in school, u are too in school around the same age category u talk on ...

I always check the mirror,,,,cuz I want to know why girls act weird around me

Lady,

I dont get fellas with laptop on their lap, the guddam thing is too warm how can they take it? :?

But if they can withstand such heat, it must mean there brain does not get signals of their little sperms been burned, which only means their brain is preoccupied with something else ...

LadyKastuma,

Give me your numba, and I'll show you what I'm talking about. No way, I'm talking more then 4 hours about ''school, work, wheater'' my convo's are about more then that.......and must lead to something otherwise faarax.jr gets dissapointed, and that only means trouble that night