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Take it from an uberly hopless romantic, no,... until after marriage. Marriage is when things get real, after learning everything about his/her charachter and you still couldn't picture life without them. Then and only than can you know he/she is the one.
Who knows, maybe there is someone who would complement you perfectly and is "the one" but I think the majority of people will not meet this person. Perhaps the pure spouse we meet in Janah is this "one"?
Regardless, I think that most will find someone that they get along with and like well enough to marry as that seems more likely. I don't think it's healthy to think about finding your perfect match as those type of people seem to over-idealize their partner or are always looking for something better. If the relationship one is in isn't satisfactory or lacks something, attempt to fix it or leave. The best way to go about it, I think, is to marry someone you feel is your best friend and with whom you feel that you can grow with as a person.