Why every time my wife and I

[Ashlee]

[foolxume2005]

[quote="Ashlee"]:roll:[/quote]

Horta ma ninbaad tahay mise naag?

[Ashlee]

HOYADADA GUSSKEED

[PragmaticGal]

foolxume, I was thinking you two would be alone in the park on a picnic. At least no Somalis for sure.

[Gedo_Boy]

PragmaticGal,

You would be like: "Go ahead honey, get the food to go. I gotta finish this redox equation"

[foolxume2005]

[quote="PragmaticGal"]foolxume, I was thinking you two would be alone in the park on a picnic. At least no Somalis for sure.[/quote]

she doesnt mind that but when she sees some1 she knows she acts like she doesn't know me or we're no together, see she married so she could come to America.

[PragmaticGal]

Gedo_Boy, nah I'd go along but bring the chem notes. It's important to spend quality time with one's spouse

I'm sorry to hear that foolxume. Do you care about her?

[Nagin]

foolxume..the reason why she is doing what she is doing ...is because she is shy in public and dont want people she knows to see her. I know your her husband and it will be nonsense for her to feel the way she feels around you in public....but you have to respect her wishes and understand that she isnt' o.k with it.

[foolxume2005]

PragmaticGal quote]
I'm sorry to hear that foolxume. Do you care about her?


Yeah I care about her, the other day she was talking to her friend and I over heard her saying "I know he's ugly but I'm not gonna leave him"



Nagin, it is so funny how all the ladies here are telling me it is okey she's shy, she wasn't dressed up and Blah blah, let's cut the chase and tell me she doesnt want ppl to know her husband is ugly.

[foolxume2005]

This dude told me I should say I love my wife 3 times a day and everything will be okey.

[Nagin]

[quote="foolxume2005"]PragmaticGal quote]
I'm sorry to hear that foolxume. Do you care about her?


Yeah I care about her, the other day she was talking to her friend and I over heard her saying "I know he's ugly but I'm not gonna leave him"



Nagin, it is so funny how all the ladies here are telling me it is okey she's shy, she wasn't dressed up and Blah blah, let's cut the chase and tell me she doesnt want ppl to know her husband is ugly.[/quote]

if I can jump into her mind for a few minutes and relized the reason why she is so shy to be around you in public..then yes I think she is ashamed to be around people she knows AROUND YOU....

and the dude that is telling you "Say I love 3 times a day" is a fool....you should tell your wife you love her when you mean it...not just to make her happy...you dont play around with that word.....I mean you married her right...then be honest....when you say it!

[Demure]

Foolxume, you sound overly conscious of your ugliness. If the woman married you as is (without demanding any cosmetic tweaking), Thank your blessings.

Was the restuarant a Somali one? That could also explain her reluctance to go in, as typically Somali resturants cater to men. Even I would feel uncomfortable in such a situation

[michael_ital]

Dude, I dunno if you're putting me on or what. But if she said that, and she DID marry you to get to the U.S, wallahi, you need to fire her ass. Otherwise i'd say she has self image/self esteem problems. But apparently not...



quote Demure "Foolxume, you sound overly conscious of your ugliness. If the woman married you as is (without demanding any cosmetic tweaking), Thank your blessings. "

you're crazy sis. Why in hell should he be grateful and have to endure that ?? Fire her azz!!