Stigma Attached To Sweet-boys

[Abdi_westldn]

the Prophet (scw) said, the best of you are those who are best to their wives.

big up to sweet bois, being king of the castle doesnt mean you're a dictator. listen and seek counsel with your wife, for only then will you build a successful kingdom, and have grateful offspring.

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[Koronto91]

Abdi,

I am afraid your words of wisdom are falling on deaf ears. To most men being a man means being the KING of your domain.

[Ugaas Diini]

Cool avatar Abdi.......

[Advocatar]

It's not Abdi.........but I think his girlfriends that using the account, anyways good post even though I didnt read it.

[Abdi_westldn]

koronto sxb, a man is the king of the castle, it is his god-given right, and responsibillity, but a king would not last very long if he taxed his peasants beyond their means, if he rules with force, he will be met with force. if a king rules with the Law of Allah subxana'watala, and understands that with his rights come the responsibillity of not only providing for his wife in the physical form, but also on an emotional level, then he will succeed. inshallah.

the best of duniya is a pious wife, and a pious wife deserves kindness, and adoration.


sweet boys, duniya is but a test, please your wives as they aim to please you, and jannah will be but a stone throw away (inshallah)

waryaa advo, hows canada


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[Abdi_westldn]

FYI: i'm not his "girlfriend"

i'm his fiancee
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[Advocatar]

Fiance, gurlfriends, lady friend same shid.................horta is the shid arranged cus you 2 are from different parts of the world, o.g style eh?


Ps. I am from Cali4nia.

[HELWAA]

[quote="Abdi_westldn"]koronto sxb, a man is the king of the castle, it is his god-given right, and responsibillity, but a king would not last very long if he taxed his peasants beyond their means, if he rules with force, he will be met with force. if a king rules with the Law of Allah subxana'watala, and understands that with his rights come the responsibillity of not only providing for his wife in the physical form, but also on an emotional level, then he will succeed. inshallah.

the best of duniya is a pious wife, and a pious wife deserves kindness, and adoration.


sweet boys, duniya is but a test, please your wives as they aim to please you, and jannah will be but a stone throw away (inshallah)

waryaa advo, hows canada


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well said bro...somali men need to learn some manners from our holy prophet (asw)


They see kindness as weakness...that maskax caruur mentality have to change

[Koronto91]

Abdi,

I share your sentiments, but I also happen to be a man and I know how difficult it is to not loose your cool at times. A pious wife is one of the blessings of this life according to the Hadith of the Prophet (saw). "The best things in life are 1). A pious wife. 2). A spacious home. 3). A good neighbor."

But as long as the sons of Iblis roam earth, man is bound to transgress.

[Abdi_westldn]

our fathers chew together so it's only natural that he would give away his oldest daughter to his best friends son

as for you being from cali, why i'm so sorry.. i must be mistaking you with someone else.. hmmm.. NOT


helwaa, walaal, i'm a sis, i'm borrowing abdi's nick.

koronto, sxb, waad saxsantahay, ilahay ha ina soo hanuuniyo, rag iyo dumar ba, ameen
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[HELWAA]

ooh sorry sis...

[Abdi_westldn]

it's okay, happens all the time.


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[Koronto91]

abdi is a sis? I am confused.

[Advocatar]

I new something was up..................thanx for clearing the dust and I am in no way shape, form involved in any canuckdom. Cali4nia love baby.


Lakinse aint nothing wrong with upper cutting your wife chin(s) every now and then, 1. it proves that you love your wife, 2. it adds spice to the relationship and 3. if you dont some one else will.

my pholisophy of sustaining a healthy relationship.

[Abdi_westldn]

lol, koronto, i am just borrowing abdi's nick. dont be so confused. you think abdi would post a topic like this? raaaa


advo, a wife should only be beaten in three instances, 1: when you strike her with your gaze
2: when you smother her with adoration 3: when you do the dirty subxan-allah, look at what you made me type. ilaahow i cafi!


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