Only If You Are Honest....

[kambuli]

I need your honest, genuine imput...

I have a problem that I can't solve or outgrow...This problem hurts me most of the time...very terribly..but no matter what I tell myself, no matter how I become angry and disappointed with myself, I still couldn't free myself...Please tell me if there is a way to help myself..

My problem is : "I trust people"

How can I be a person who don't trust people? How can I be on my guard?

I know you folks see this as a foolish question, but it is a real honest question...This is a weakness that I have....

If you can't say helpful advise please refrain from addressing this issue.

[xamari_gash]

SO LET ME GET DIS RIGHT PPL HAVE LET U DWN
BUT U STYLL TRUST DEM

[Lil_Cutie..]

Salaam Kambuli--
Why is that such a big problem?No pun intended, but why does it bother you?..

[1_londoner]

whats the matter wiv trusting people .
thats a good quallity to have.
unless ur the type of person who gives people money when u know they have a record of not paying people back and u still give it 2 them.
then thats just plain stupid.

[COSTA]

Kambuli as they say Fool me once shame on you Fool me twice shame on me

Dont trust someone who used you once before

[AbdiWahab252]

kambuli,

Humans are evil. It is in our nature. Accept it.

Remember never to say or do anything that leaves u exposed.

"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst."

[qudhac-m]

Kambuli

Ma rag badan baa been kuu sheegay oo used and abused kaaga dhigay.
never mind it the experience that counts so next time LUGAHA ISKU QABO.

[Babygal]

trust even those who don't trust you cuz in the end even if they do you bad it all comes back to them..

and at the same time learn how to gaurd your self alittle more than you already have, keep your head up sis no matter what it is..just don't be too hard on yourself and blame yourself for something some idiot had no control of doing to you and leave the rest to god.

[SummerRain]

There is nothing wrong with trusting people, its important/good quality to have. However, it should be earned. In this day and age, there are not alot of people you can trust, so keep an open eye and be careful.

[Padishah]

"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst."

One of the better truisms.

[Navy9]

Moderation is the key, walaal. Never let anyone too close to you and tell them your secrets---you never know, they may turn against you one day and use what they know of you in their favor-. Just be friendly and helpful as much as you can but always keep your space from them. I never trust anyone 100% and so far it has worked for me!

[Ugaas Diini]

WHy do you trust people? Fear of rejection? Anyway I rarely trust anyone because no one focking trusts me.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Kambuli,



There is nothing wrong in trusting people but you should always keep your guards up. There is a difference between trustworthy and being naïve.

You should help others but don’t let them take you for granted.

If you're talking about trusting people with personal issues and then being betrayed by them, you shouldn’t do it in the first place. You should only share personal information about you and others with selective individuals in your circle. The people you know well enough to trust. If not, you will be labeled and classified as gossiper and that is not good.

I know it’s hard to believe this coming from me but I’m being VERY sincere.

[Qumanyoo]

had the same problem but i managed to let them go after the 1st time they disappointed me.. learn from ur mistakes.. be more wary and alert about ppl around u ..
are they out for demselves or just genuine...

[Mystic_Angel]

kambuli maxa kugu dhacay? did that bastard break your fragile heart?
If so..you know where to contact me at.