Divorce is on, marriage is off

[KeligiiJabhad]

a very interesting article. I think everyone would spend some time as it's dealing with the issue of marriage vs divorce.



By Mohamed Mukhtar
Sunday, November 04, 2007


“I know that I am 25 years old. But what is the point of marrying if I am going to be divorced,” said Zamzam apprehensively, “I rather remain single instead of becoming a single mother with children tugging at my hum”

“Why will you become a single mother?” interrupted a worried voice which was coming from the other end of the telephone line.

“Men are failing to be proper husbands,” Zamzam retorted anxiously.

“Marriage is a like a prize draw, you do not know what you will get,” the voice replied comfortingly.

“Grandma, tell that to my three friends. They were all married and divorced. Here, in London, unlike Somalia, marriage has been turned into revolving-door relationship,” said Zamzam in a state of hopelessness and with an apathetic voice.

“You know, in our culture, a great value is placed on women to bear children,” the voice responded quickly.

“What is the point of creating a dysfunctional family?” enquired Zamzam despondently.

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[Spookie]

Blame the incompetent men.

[Gedo_Boy]

It's a crisis in society no doubt!

Sometimes I wonder who is more at fault and sometimes I think it's the men.

But then sometimes I think it's the girls too because they are infatuated with thugs. And then you wonder why the addict won't take care of your babies?

Were you supposed to magically change what you married on your wedding night?

[Advocatar]

Divorce is the new ch!t and I love it.....there's so many experience garoobs lose all over my ends who help a brotha in dire strait, it's unbe-weavable. we need to have a national garoob day in appreciation or something, how can something so bad be soo good?, I guess that's one of life mystery questions that will never be solved and debated in somali philosiphy class.

[Gedo_Boy]

"help a brother in dire straits" maxaa ka wadaa?

Advocator, are you the type to wear one of those Foot Locker extra long rapper shirts ?

[Advocatar]

waxaas waa laga baxey ina adeer, dhag iyo dhuun baa ii duran and my favorite cartoon characters with bling-bling/slang slogan are always sported on my chest not to mention a fresh R.I.P hebel-hebel that was gunned down somwhere in the city every week etc.

ina adeer ut getting old, get wid tha game.

[Spookie]

All I can say is that qaxootis are losing their tradition.


They think having a baby-mama or baby-daddy is cool.

[Advocatar]

spookie, maybe it's some sord a new fixed-income plan?


seriously, some xaliimos are getting paid by 3 different sources at once.


so maybe that has something to do with it?

[Gedo_Boy]

lol @ RIP hebel hebel.....
What's next are you gonna light up uunsi at ur boy's
grave every Sunday?

waryaa ur adeer is gonna have to adopt u to move to Northern VA b4 u get a RIP hebel hebel tattoo...

Either that or start rolling w/ sadeboi's Abercrombie & Farax crew

leave the soon to be incarcerated alone son!

[sadeboi]

[quote]Either that or start rolling w/ sadeboi's Abercrombie & Farax crew [/quote]

waxaan wa aflagaado and I want gogal...I DON'T SHOP THERE...and never have I bought anything from there..

sadeboi's fashion cannot be name in terms of preppy..punk..baggy or anything else..i am just to unique with it..and sport the latest...

[Advocatar]

It's unique alright,

he buys his

shoes from Vanz

Pants = Gen-X

Shirts = K&G

etc....

[HELWAA]

I blame the MEN.
If they respected their wives and treated them like our holy prophet (csw)
treated his wives and learned THE DEEN it would be no divorce.

FAARAXS NEED A WAKE UP CALL BEFORE IS TO LATE.

[sadeboi]

ba'aa gen x iyo k&g waa maxay???

[muktaar]

here in the western atmpshere both men and women are losin tracks

with the new found freedom somali women aint what they use to be
bak in they females use to be the backbone of the family, they are the ones who use raise kids..but the new generation is self centered , BET/MTV worshippin good for nothing spoiled brats piece of worthless shiiiiit


as for men the once proud bread winner have been reduced to either:

coffee shop dewller
mafrash frquent flyer
drug addicts
thug wanabe punks



FUK BOTH GENDER BLUD