Is It a Bad Idea to Live With Someone B4 U Get Married

[MJ-Pride]

And the award for stating the obvious goes to Fahi. Congrats man. You just managed to point out something thats hard for others to see.

all jokes aside, I want to test drive her before I announce the marriage

[SummerRain]

[quote="FAH1223"][quote="Ismahan123"]Ala ninman asasiqey maxey meeshaan ka buxaan.


Fah,

My virgin ears........watch the language dear.[/quote]

I'm telling the truth and calling it like I see it[/quote]

Thats quite alright, just tone down the languages, its not for you.

[FAH1223]

[quote="MJ-Pride"]And the award for stating the obvious goes to Fahi. Congrats man. You just managed to point out something thats hard for others to see.

all jokes aside, I want to test drive her before I announce the marriage[/quote]

and congrats to you for doing the xaram and following the shaydaan to the roads of jahannam, great job! keep following the kuffar!

[MJ-Pride]

Ismahan,
Walaahi I know your type. The type that rush to the garbasaar when they see a man and after two days expose her naaso. Talking about virgin ears and I am sure you are not virgin deep down

[MJ-Pride]

Fah,
I don't believe you are virgin either ee stop making me feel guilty. I will ask Allah for forgiveness

[SummerRain]

[quote="MJ-Pride"]Ismahan,
Walaahi I know your type. The type that rush to the garbasaar when they see a man and after two days expose her naaso. Talking about virgin ears and I am sure you are not virgin deep down [/quote]

Iska hadalka dhibaatodisa wey leydahay.

[Algebra]

This is not right your conscious wont let you feel happy if you're a Muslim. You wont enjoy it and you'll feel guilty about it. If you have a shred of decency this live with some one before you get married doesn't seem so right either.

[FAH1223]

[quote="MJ-Pride"]Fah,
I don't believe you are virgin either ee stop making me feel guilty. I will ask Allah for forgiveness [/quote]

I swear on the name of Allah SWT, I have never been intimate or kissed a girl EVER in my life. Never had sex, never did anything sexual. Wallahi o Billahi

Its one thing to ask forgiveness, but you need to take ACTION and that action is to quit zina and the glorification of it

its AMAZING how the TRASH of society (the fornication, zina, alcohol, drugs) has become the GLORIFIED TREASURE to ATTAIN

and the real treasure of Allah SWT and the Qur'an is put aside as if it were trash

[muktaar]

[quote="Aliyah99"]I have friends who did that when they moved out for university their boyfriends just practically lived with them. My parents wouldn't let me move out for university they insisted I attend an institution within commuting distance. Now I'm glad they were so strict because some of my friend boyfriend's didn't marry them = trouble [/quote]


be greatfull to ur parents, gal

i have yet to meet a somali chick who went away 4 Uni and kept her virginty intact
it seems that somali chicks lose their virginty within 48 hours of leaving thier parents house

had ur family allowed u to move away 4 Uni, ur siiil size would have been the same as somewhat healthy 34 yr old Hugarian porn star

[XidigtaJSL]

This is a logical question Abdiwahab. I believe it depends on the couple and wether they feel moving in together will help enhance their relationship both emotionally and financially. In my case, we already did enough dating and are happy with the relationship we have that is why we decided to set a wedding date this summer, she works and goes to school and I do the same and are saving enough money, she lives with her family and I live with mine, this takes care of having to pay for rent and utilities if we lived together before the meher. The big day is around the corner anyway so what is the point of living together now.


But every case is different

[Gacalisa]

what is there to discuss its Xaram so there NO!, besides do you really want all your good thoughts to be ruined.

I mean when you're husband and wife, you can actually work it out, and decide on a common ground, but if its some dude who your talking to, the minute you find something you hate, He's out the door, so NO for me.

[Gedo_Boy]

damn in 10-15 years time there's gonna be such a gap in Somalis in the West........some who will just completely lose their culture/daqan/diin and some who will still try to maintain.

Might as well just start wearing large gold Jesus pieces right now.