i really hate one of my somali neighbors

[Spookie]

Just break one of her windows.

[Cawar]

[quote="zulaika"]fah,

i can't...not this one. lol.

abdi,

i can't lie dee, he's too nice and would probably contradict me next time she comes around.lol. and as for your neighbor... to disagree is one thing but to act all nicely and then spread nonsense about someone is another thing. besides, ya'll are prolly chewing that hallucinogens when you're disagreeing and forget all about it when u gain back your sobriety..lol. sorry love.

cawar,

you're fishing from an empty pond dear, drop those questions waryaa. lol.[/quote]


Fishing?? who me?? loool.

Some ppl do misread me..just like they did

[biko]

[quote="SahanGalbeed"]Right on Biko , waxa diin yaqaan isku sheega golaha , bal eeg hadaladooda !!
Ina Lilah waa Ina Ileehi rajicuun , Ilahow weliga aqliga ha inaga qaadin baa lagu ducaysta!![/quote]


amiin to that!

[AbdiWahab252]

Biko,

They were treating and bought the khat.

I will argue with the Iblis himself if he buys me khat.

[Koronto91]

Zuleika,

Treating your neighbors with dignity is part of Islam and is one of the things that you will be questioned about on the day of judgement. The Prophet (saw) said the best of things in life are: 1. A spacious home 2. A righteous wife 3. A good neighbor (Sahih Bukhari)

Xaqeeda u dhowr, waxba ha u diidin, because of the verse in the Qur'an that says "Wayam nacuunal maacuun" i.e. "Those who refuse to lend their utensils to their neighbors" Just keep your distance & be political about how you deal with her, without commiting a sin.

[zulaika]

helwaa,

she's not isaaq dee.. naaheedhe, dumar are bilaa qabiil in the namiim department lol.

abdi,

i do cook for him and i'm a neat freak..that's not even the issue..she's just very nosy and asks me personal questions like having kids and such..and i said somethings about family planning..and off she runs with it. i can't get into details here but she's a qumayo who acts nicely to those around me but i knew she was no good.

danyeer,

why isn't this a surprise..u actually comment on topics round here? i'm honored u chose mine dear.lol.

sahan

....ummmm...aren't u gonna ask me something huuno?... (waiting....) LOL

[HELWAA]

[quote="yasmin"]Helwa manta maa waxaad kuu hadasho ayaad garan weydey maxaa issaq oo dhan
xaasid kaa dhigey nayaa soomaali kale kama duwaana ee isla xishood[/quote]


Yasmin

Walaal you dont liv in my city....The pple who livs here are pain in the as....adiga uun ba laga shaqayneyaa...Hadi ku arkaan shanta subaxnimo adigo halka muluqmuluq leh....you will hear the story oo 10 xabo basal ah lagu si yara dhanaaniyey bacda a week....

[SahanGalbeed]

UUh..yeah Zulaika ... I was gonna say .. cid kale ha la tashan ee hooyo hadalkeeda maqal.

[Cawar]

Z,

Ok just 1 Q and answer it honestly plz??

Is she a habr or a hotty?? and no I ma not going anywhere with this ...but I may have been somewhat familiar or had someone close who had this sort of a prob. so??

[biko]

aw

lol...but am sure its better to shew with people who have oposing political views, as it makes the jaad and the conversation more heated interesting.

[zulaika]

cawar,

she's in her 30's married 2 kids...and probably depressed


sahan..

that's it?... chicken lol.

[biko]

[quote="zulaika"]helwaa,

she's not isaaq dee.. naaheedhe, dumar are bilaa qabiil in the namiim department lol.

[/quote]


she is not isaq iyo dumar waa bila qabiil kala saar aado...

waxaas waxa la yiira contradhiction in term.

lol

[HELWAA]

Zuli

Walaal naagta ka gaabso ..dab bay la socota....qofko haduu guriygaaga dhibaato oo gaysanyo lama soo dhaweeysto.And be stright to her.......hadi ku waydiiso caruur maxaad oo dhali waydey...waxaad ku tiraah......walaal adiga afaaraha laguuma dirsan, maxaa adiga ka khuusiya horta...ee adiga kaaga 15 ah ee uurkeyga ku dabo dhigay.....shaqo yeelo gabadheey....daam maskiinad baad tahy walle zulikhaayy...taa aniga si wanaagsan ogu jawaabi lahaa walle.

[yasmin]

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="yasmin"]Helwa manta maa waxaad kuu hadasho ayaad garan weydey maxaa issaq oo dhan
xaasid kaa dhigey nayaa soomaali kale kama duwaana ee isla xishood[/quote]


Yasmin

Walaal you dont liv in my city....The pple who livs here are pain in the as....adiga uun ba laga shaqayneyaa...Hadi ku arkaan shanta subaxnimo adigo halka muluqmuluq leh....you will hear the story oo 10 xabo basal ah lagu si yara dhanaaniyey bacda a week....[/quote]

I know that some issaq people are bad but there's just like other somali people but yet again they still not better or worser than other somali people.

[kambuli]

Zuliekha,

An honest advice is;

If this lady is your permanent neighbor, then it is a problem...Meaning if both of you own the houses you live in then this is a big problem. I can't stand people who backbite people...Xanley waa xaasid...Xaasidkana waxaa laga fogaadaa boqol kilometer...

Try your best to show her how gossip is evil and if you want read the Xadith for her about...How people who gossip is like eating the dead body of your brother"

If you are stuck with her, try to show her that you are not a gossiper...What I do when someone gossips other people I never ever agree with them...Wallaahay I give them a hard time...Like " How did you know this? Can you say this infront of him/her....

Show her how you hate people who gossip..Tell her you see gossipers as loser who are envious...Bunka ha uga dhimin...Ish..No mercy for xanley...