GUURKA Soomalida qurbaha.

[HELWAA]

Helwaa,

Meeshaan caruurna waa ku jirtaa sida Hyper oo kale waayeel is caruureynayana waa ku jiraan..sida calooley oo kale..Sida lagu xaqiijiyey golahan...1999 ayey ku jirtey iyadoo leh Masters Degree baan sidtaa marka do the math

One of the ways they act like carruur is saying we don't speak Somali or we listen and we are familiar with rock music...That is the way...

Trust me meeshan 50 yrs old baa ku jira... Ilaahow yaa meeel isugu keena reer Somalinet

Waa runta...dad badan baa meshan is caruuriya walle.....I dont understand the point of it walaahi...lying about ur age wont make you younger...why cant they just say ilaahyo cimiriga ii dheere.

[Feminist`03]

I think most of us focus on the wedding night and never on the actual marriage. and overlook the deep connexion we're meant to build with some one before the marital stage. I mean connexion not intimacy!! somaali ppl have this carefree opinion/ideology of marriage and the meaning of it. few hadiths i would like to share with you all[/size]

`Alqamah said, While I was going along with `Abd Allah, he said, We were with the Prophet (pbuh) and he said: "He who is able to marry should marry, for it keeps the eye cast down and keeps a man chaste; and he who cannot, should take to fasting, for it will have a castrating effect upon him.1 (B. 30 : 10.)[/size]

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: `A Muslim man can acquire no benefit after Islam greater than a Muslim wife who makes him happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he commands her, and protects him when he is away from her in herself and in his property.' ( Quotes on marriage from Nasa'i) he also mentioned `The most perfect believer in faith is the one whose character is finest and who is kindest to his wife.' ( Quotes on marriage from Tirmidhi and Nasa'i)

a woman should know her place in a marriage and a man should know his role then that marriage will remain solid. look at our grandparents.... DIVORCE WAS UNHEARD OF

[Heidi_]

a woman should know her place in a marriage and a man should know his role then that marriage will remain solid. look at our grandparents.... DIVORCE WAS UNHEARD OF

Divorce was unheard of during our grandparents generation because most of our grandmothers were uneducated and had no one else to provide for them. Divorce wasn't an option for them!

You only live once. If you're unhappy in your marriage, end it! Simple.

[TheBigBosS]

a woman should know her place in a marriage and a man should know his role then that marriage will remain solid. look at our grandparents.... DIVORCE WAS UNHEARD OF

Divorce was unheard of during our grandparents generation because most of our grandmothers were uneducated and had no one else to provide for them. Divorce wasn't an option for them!

You only live once. If you're unhappy in your marriage, end it! Simple.

Our grandmothers were real women who respected their men not like u westernised uneducated dhoocilo

[HELWAA]

a woman should know her place in a marriage and a man should know his role then that marriage will remain solid. look at our grandparents.... DIVORCE WAS UNHEARD OF

Divorce was unheard of during our grandparents generation because most of our grandmothers were uneducated and had no one else to provide for them. Divorce wasn't an option for them!

You only live once. If you're unhappy in your marriage, end it! Simple.

So you would end ur marriage without any considration for ur kids?

That is just plain dumb.

[xidigow]

Walaal you cant prepare ur self for marriage because you dont know who you will end up with.....Every daughter think all the men is just like her father esp when you had a good father you admired so much...a father who stand for honesty...respect...humbelness and diin.
I wish all the men was just like my father... [/quote]

Helwa,
You have good point, but also the contaray is very TRUE. Waxaan arkay reer habartu ay qaylo badantahay,k odeyguna is the most careless humanbeing you can find on earth. All thier girls became useless wives.

[surrender]

surrender i get where u coming from walahi some guys and i repeat it seem as u was generalising us as it seemed but some gals brought it on themselves self hating and siding with ajnabis when they diss us but thats life nolosha brings tests which we have to survive but mostly peeps see it as jokes and get along so dont take 2 heart if u that concerned tell the mods and admins!

u dont see somali guys with ajnabi saying somali women that somali women that thats why am with ajnabi but thats what some women do instead of lookin for solutions we blaim a gender waa caadi dou at the end of the day its all giggy without selfhating.

i agree with you. but these guys need to understand that not all somali girls are ho.es and not all somali girls are with ajnabiis. i know some somali girl who's marired to white man (muslim white man) and walahi they way better than us. they have better akhlaaq than us. you dont see them hating other somalis or whites. but than again i know a somali man who's married to a non muslim white lady. and he smokes chews and drinks. but than again you dont see us hating them. you dont see us saying because of this somali man who have a non muslim culture all somali men are the same. there are good way better somali girls. but these sneters have to understand that somali girls are different just as same as somali boys.

[HELWAA]

Walaal you cant prepare ur self for marriage because you dont know who you will end up with.....Every daughter think all the men is just like her father esp when you had a good father you admired so much...a father who stand for honesty...respect...humbelness and diin.
I wish all the men was just like my father...

Helwa,
You have good point, but also the contaray is very TRUE. Waxaan arkay reer habartu ay qaylo badantahay,k odeyguna is the most careless humanbeing you can find on earth. All thier girls became useless wives.[/quote]


Indeed Inan kasta waa mesha ay ka soo kacdo...WE all BECOME like our parents.

[HELWAA]

TTT