Somali Nikaax: Questions

[AbdiWahab252]

So folks whats the best way to present a good image to your future father in law besides driving with him to the Masjid and praying every time you are at the house ? During the nikaax how much yaraad are you supposed to give out ? Who qualifies as a witness ? Any guidance on who to bring ?

Much appreciated.

[FAH1223]

go ask your imam

[Shirib]

Let ur fam handle all the talkin and stuff. U just chill, shake hands, say hi.

Take father (if he's still alive),brothers, first cousins,

The groom isn't supposed to do anything except come and come up with the money, the rest is handled by the family

[Executive]

Bring the fam and a Sheikh, All you do is say Qabilto 3 times,

I know I prononced it wrong, But I was hella scared cause it was a unexpected/unwanted marriage when i was a 18.

[suga_n_spice]

i thought the guy and the girl talk about the amount of the meher
because it's gonna b hers right??
and then "yaradka" na u pass it around at qadada.

allah back in june when i went to my cousins weddin. i was given a $20 bill and and then this lady grabbed it from me again and gave it to another older woman i was pissed

[FAH1223]

you got married at 18?

scary, im 18 right now

[Executive]

FAH1223


I had to get married. Have you ever heard of horgaal? Im not married now alxamdullilah

[Shirib]

FAH1223


I had to get married. Have you ever heard of horgaal? Im not married now alxamdullilah

What is that?

[Koronto91]

AW,

1-So folks whats the best way to present a good image to your future father in law besides driving with him to the Masjid and praying every time you are at the house?

-Why do you need to put on a show for the old man? You're already marrying his daughter, be yourself. People can tell a faker from a mile away, just remember to be respectful, kind and well-mannered.

2-During the nikaax how much yaraad are you supposed to give out?

-It depends on how much you can afford and how much you & the bride have agreed on. No need to break your back if you can't afford it. Also, a dowry can never come from any other source besides the groom's halal earned income, that means no "Qaaraan" or borrowing from family & friends.

3-Who qualifies as a witness? Any guidance on who to bring?

-Any male of sound mind & age who prays and follows the religion. Start your marriage on the right footing and it will last. The male witnesses can be your relatives or friends, age is not an issue as long as he is an adult.

[Faisah]

executive and you're 'online cheating' on your wife subxaanallah

allah sugaspice you are maskiinad. i would hav said naa noo daa maxaad naga rabtaa. you know these habro have bad manners, you have to put them into their right places. few weeks ago in a wedding i was doing a buraanbur then this habar pulled me so hard that my dirac was torn. guess what? surkaan ku dhigay i demanded the price of my dirac and i got it. if she wouldn't have given me wallahi i would have ripped her dirac infront of the people. ma hooyadeey baa markeey i jiideyso

[FAH1223]

FAH1223


I had to get married. Have you ever heard of horgaal? Im not married now alxamdullilah

Never heard of it.

Faisah, the nicca said he aint married

[Shirib]

executive and you're 'online cheating' on your wife subxaanallah

allah sugaspice you are maskiinad. i would hav said naa noo daa maxaad naga rabtaa. you know these habro have bad manners, you have to put them into their right places. few weeks ago in a wedding i was doing a buraanbur then this habar pulled me so hard that my dirac was torn. guess what? surkaan ku dhigay i demanded the price of my dirac and i got it. if she wouldn't have given me wallahi i would have ripped her dirac infront of the people. ma hooyadeey baa markeey i jiideyso

Ceeb, u can't do that to a habar

[SummerRain]

Bring the fam and a Sheikh, All you do is say Qabilto 3 times,

I know I prononced it wrong, But I was hella scared cause it was a unexpected/unwanted marriage when i was a 18.

maac sonkor

[kadarre]

Shirib

Waa cida waalan wax fiyow ma ahan

[Executive]

Faah



Its when you conceive before marriage