The Ideal Wife

[Enlightened~Sista]

classy, elegant,beautiful, spiritual..knows how to carry herself well, is active in the community, knows how to take good care of her husband..takes great pride in her home, knows how to cook delicious meals, great socializer and entertainer to her guests, knows how to speak her native language well even if she didnt she should learn it and master it..she also knows how to pass down the traditions of her culture and the diin to the next generation..i.e her kids!

[PINK_BUNNY]

^^ ....That smilie looks like the expression of a excited baby. Why do we have it?

[Enlightened~Sista]

lol dunno

[RebelLion]

classy, elegant,beautiful, spiritual..knows how to carry herself well, is active in the community, knows how to take good care of her husband..takes great pride in her home, knows how to cook delicious meals, great socializer and entertainer to her guests, knows how to speak her native language well even if she didnt she should learn it and master it..she also knows how to pass down the traditions of her culture and the diin to the next generation..i.e her kids!

no need to complicate things: cooking/cleaning, staying fit and being obedient is all you ladies need to worry about. Very simple.

[Quadratic]

To have a Cooking skill is one of the best qualities in a woman. Any girl who can't cook lacks a very useful skill.

[gedo_gurl]

I wish there was more choice on earth other than men...or xaraam. If was not in our diin, I would attempt cleanse the world of marriage, its only the fact that its in the religion that I dont hate it as much as those white lesbian feminists do.

[Gifted]

I dont think theres a universal definition of an "ideal wife" or husband for that matter. It just depends on the individual people, what makes one happy may not for another.

[AbdiWahab252]

lol@ adeer abdiwahab. adeer you're not expecting such level of obedience from a gabar HG ah. she'll cook for you and do the usual domestic chores but she will always know her rights.

Faisah,

Thats propoganda.

[HELWAA]

The Ideal Muslim Wife

"Any woman who dies, and her husband is pleased with her, will enter Paradise." [Agreed upon]

The Prophet (SAW) said:

"Shall I tell you the most precious thing a man can have? It is a righteous wife: when he looks at her he is pleased, when he tells her to do something she obeys, and when he is away she is faithful and loyal to him" [al-Hakim, who said it is sahih according to the conditions of al-Bukhari and Muslim]

SOME CHARACTERISTICS OF THE IDEAL MUSLIM WIFE

* Brings happiness to her husband

* Brings tranquility to her husband

*Brings stability to her husband

*Brings peace, comfort, and pleasure to her husband

*She makes a cheerful , pleasant , and secure home

*She must be faithful, trustworthy, and honest

*She wants to raise successful, courageous, intelligent children

*She may neither offend him nor hurt his feelings.

The Importance of a good wife to her husband (and of course vice versa) is Great to Allah (SWT). Nothing can illustrate the point better than the Qur'anic statement which describes the righteous people as those who pray:

"Rabba-na hab la-na min azwaji-na wa dhuriyyati-na qurrata a'yunin wa aj'al-na li al muttaqin imama"

"Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and offspring who will be the joy and the comfort of our eyes, and guide us to be models of righteousness" (Qur'an 25:74)

Obligations of the wife: Husband's rights

The main obligations of a wife is to contribute to the success and happiness of the marriage.

She needs to care about the comfort and well being of her husband

She does not deceive her husband purposly

She does not accept gifts without his approval; this is to avoid jealousy, suspicion, gossip, etc

The husbands possessions are her trust

She makes herself desirable and attractive to her husband

She should not deny herself to her husband, for the Qur'an speaks of them as comfort to eachother.

[Cawar]

I wish there was more choice on earth other than men...or xaraam. If was not in our diin, I would attempt cleanse the world of marriage, its only the fact that its in the religion that I dont hate it as much as those white lesbian feminists do.

Woow.. Another Araweelo in the making???

[AbdiWahab252]

Helwa,

Thanks

Gedogurl,

What is his name so I can go kick his arse

[Murax]

no need to complicate things: cooking/cleaning, staying fit and being obedient is all you ladies need to worry about. Very simple.

[garowegal]

I wish there was more choice on earth other than men...or xaraam. If was not in our diin, I would attempt cleanse the world of marriage, its only the fact that its in the religion that I dont hate it as much as those white lesbian feminists do.

[Firefly]

To have a Cooking skill is one of the best qualities in a woman. Any girl who can't cook lacks a very useful skill.

The emphasis is on one of the best qualities in a woman. Which means there are plenty of other qualities that a woman possesses, and it's really ignorant and unjust to only focus on one of her qualities in order to satisfy your animal desire.

Furthermore, not knowing how to cook does not make a woman, less of a woman. It just means she has not acquired that skill yet - if a woman was defined by her cooking skills- don't you think every woman on earth would be able to cook? Don't you think God would have created woman with that special skill? It just shows that it's not a God given blessing on all women- some women are better at it than others, it doesn't mean they are superior than the other women. I've even seen men who can cook better than women. Does it not surprise you that most chefs are men? Or are they not considered 'men' because they decided to cook for a living?

It's a blessing from Allah (swt) if a man marries a woman who cooks, takes care of her house, and his children in order to please Allah (swt). And men shouldn't take this for granted under any circumstance--and it doesn't hurt to help out with the household chores now & then.

[Nivea_x]

You all dont know the meaning of marriage!

when you meet a guy, you think thats it HE IS PERFECT, first 2 weeks waad kaa xiishooneysa after that he will get on your nerves!

cooking a delicious meal for your husband!

Sick Minded people do i look like a slave