QUESTION FOR THE LADIES

Ladane21 · Post by **Ladane21** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:31 pm

My friend who just graduated from college this year has this dilema. She is dating two guys; Truck Driver (2yrs) and Professional (Degreed) guy for about 6 months. She said she have let one of them go cuz they're demanding too much of her time. what's your take and Why?

Here are the pros and cons.

Truck Driver is only in town 10 days every two weeks, Ok looking, buys a lot of gifts, takes her and friends out, let her use his credit card and Calls all the time. He's somewhat insecure and always asking her whereabouts. Gets mad when she talks to other guys. Doesn't like to be in Social settings like Co-workers get together.

Other guys is easy to talk, mind his business, doesn't care her whereabouts, secure in terms of who she talks to and good looking. Calls may be once in every 2-3 days. He has two kids with prior marriage and Not thinking getting married in the next 2-3 yrs. Very friendly and social but doesn't allow to bring any of her freinds with her when they hang out.

Note: Since it's Ramadan please give your Honest Opinion.

Thanks

AyanTu · Post by **AyanTu** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:38 pm

Tell your friend she needs option # 3, cuz 1 and 2 are not doing it....not for me at least.....

ms.nalia · Post by **ms.nalia** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:40 pm

Dating two guys for 6 months. Thats deceitful dontcha think?

Ladane21 · Post by **Ladane21** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 12:47 pm

ms.nalia wrote:
Dating two guys for 6 months. Thats deceitful dontcha think?

Ms. Nalia. It is not my job to jugde if her act is decitful or not. What's your take?

Ayantu Thanks Wallalo. What would you consider as 3 option?

AyanTu · Post by **AyanTu** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:08 pm

A mix of #1 and #2....

Cawar · Post by **Cawar** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:12 pm

Tell her to come here..Snet..
I am sure she will find lots of helpful ideas around ...not to mention potential customers.

P.S This is not just for the ladies Q.. Men have more at stake in this situation.

Jamac_Yare · Post by **Jamac_Yare** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:25 pm

ms.nalia wrote:
Dating two guys for 6 months. Thats deceitful dontcha think?

its normal trait 4 gals these days

ms nalia your so innocent

surrender · Post by **surrender** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:28 pm

AyanTu wrote:A mix of #1 and #2....

yeah i was thinking the same. bit of the truck's buys a lot of gifts, takes her and friends out, let her use his credit card and Calls all the time and the degree guys' easy to talk, mind his business, doesn't care her whereabouts, secure in terms of who she talks to and good looking. Calls may be once in every 2-3 days. hhmmmmm thats sounds good.

ms.nalia · Post by **ms.nalia** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:31 pm

Jamac_Yare wrote:
ms.nalia wrote:
Dating two guys for 6 months. Thats deceitful dontcha think?
its normal trait 4 gals these days

ms nalia your so innocent

Im not innocent. Im just decisive. It wouldnt take me 6 months to figer out which guy i like. And if by the time 6 months came and she still dont know, then its a clear indication that she should not be with either. She wasting her time as well as the other gentlemen.

AyanTu · Post by **AyanTu** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:33 pm

surrender wrote:
AyanTu wrote:A mix of #1 and #2....
yeah i was thinking the same. bit of the truck's buys a lot of gifts, takes her and friends out, let her use his credit card and Calls all the time and the degree guys' easy to talk, mind his business, doesn't care her whereabouts, secure in terms of who she talks to and good looking. Calls may be once in every 2-3 days. hhmmmmm thats sounds good.

Cisse Westlake · Post by **Cisse Westlake** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:35 pm

waryaa topic maker

warn the 2 guys and tell them your woman is a 2 timeing skank

Jamac_Yare · Post by **Jamac_Yare** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:36 pm

ms.nalia wrote:

Im not innocent. Im just decisive. It wouldnt take me 6 months to figer out which guy i like. And if by the time 6 months came and she still dont know, then its a clear indication that she should not be with either. She wasting her time as well as the other gentlemen.

maybe she just wants both and trying to use them to the max as possible

muktaar · Post by **muktaar** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:39 pm

soon enough the truck driver will contract Genital Herpes
give it 2 the chick & chick will give it 2 the dude with the drgee
and in due time all of them gonna be needing >>>>>>>>

2 Suppress their symptoms

Allahu Akbaar

TrophY-WifeY- · Post by **TrophY-WifeY-** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 1:57 pm

omg what is wrong with girl

the two men are losers..

....one is truck driver ewww

(he seems nice but.. his job suckis)
the other one got kids and failed marriage....

Obviously he doesn't care about her....callling her 2-3 days kulahaa what the hell.....if a man likes you he should call you often

Tell her that Trophy-Wifey (Wise WOmen) Said 8) Drop the Losers and Pick a Hero

Ladane21 · Post by **Ladane21** » Thu Sep 25, 2008 2:03 pm

Cawar wrote:Tell her to come here..Snet..
I am sure she will find lots of helpful ideas around ...not to mention potential customers.

P.S This is not just for the ladies Q.. Men have more at stake in this situation.

I will invite her to the site and inform her that you're suitable Dude.....She can't read Somali tho....I meant to say every one...Sorry about that

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