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Re: Would You Marry...

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hyperactive wrote:of course there will be consiquesces for your zina in this worls and man up and take the responsiblity of what you have done.
What are the consequences for zina according to Islam?
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Cawar wrote:Not being proud of your past..esp. if it involves bad things.. is essential to thowba 7assanah sow maaha??
Regret for your sins is a requirement for repenting.

1. Regret

2. Ceasing the sining.

3. Intention to not return to it.

Without any of these three conditions, repentence will not be accepted.
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Kolombo wrote:
Cawar wrote:Not being proud of your past..esp. if it involves bad things.. is essential to thowba 7assanah sow maaha??
Regret for your sins is a requirement for repenting.

1. Regret

2. Ceasing the sining.

3. Intention to not return to it.

Without any of these three conditions, repentence will not be accepted.
thank you.
that's is shoroot the towbah that scholars put it.

AbuShabab wrote:
hyperactive wrote:of course there will be consiquesces for your zina in this worls and man up and take the responsiblity of what you have done.
What are the consequences for zina according to Islam?
ibn qiyam said : sareegta ba ka tagheysa/ 7ayada ba qofka ka tageysa their face,
also was said the zina bring halak bey nafs[qalb] and faqr.
also you may find what you have did in your house hold.

you may repent but still some how you have to pay for it in other way that you may now even get connection or without knowing meel laga so ghalay.

zinada is very ugly sin, mala'ika fil 3arsh course you untill the sun comes on.
wa wah aad o foolhun, yaqyaqsi na ah.
i dont know how people make it easy.
shaitan ba o qurhinaya baan o maleyni.
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Hto wrote:Let's say you dating this beautiful somali girl and you sleep together, have sex, she flies to see you, stays with you on the weekends, etc. Would you marry her?

how funny, i've seen this...and they are getting married next month!!
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Ayantu: How do you eat/sleep knowing that your not a virgin?
How do you kiss your mother and associate with other somalis knowing that you lost your battle with ur whoremones?
wallahi, I am guy and if i was a non virgin, i would feel sick to my stomach


how many babies have you aborted?

Do you plan on marrying a decent somali guy, if so, am gonna save you the trouble and tell you keep on dreaming lady...that ship sailed away the second you lost your dignity :oops:
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Assalamu Alaykum AyaanTu

Abaayo macaan Even if you committed a huge sin/daambi you can Repent inshallah and allah knows best
and also you shouldnt get married because you have to listen to your heart Ayaantu
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Ayaantu Inshallah I hope everything is great with you macaanto!!!
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Faisah wrote:
Hto wrote:Let's say you dating this beautiful somali girl and you sleep together, have sex, she flies to see you, stays with you on the weekends, etc. Would you marry her?
Naagtii dhulka is dhigto kan camal lee u dambeyn.. would you marry her kulahaa... hadaad nin rag tahay raganimadaad ku fuushay baad ku guursan lahayd... naagtii isa sharafta si fiican baa loo soo doontaa laakiin naag dhulka is dhigto oo nimankana la seexato tan lee u dambeyn... uhuuu

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abaayo Inshallah I will pray for you ayaantu
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Faisah wrote:
Hto wrote:Let's say you dating this beautiful somali girl and you sleep together, have sex, she flies to see you, stays with you on the weekends, etc. Would you marry her?
Naagtii dhulka is dhigto kan camal lee u dambeyn.. would you marry her kulahaa... hadaad nin rag tahay raganimadaad ku fuushay baad ku guursan lahayd... naagtii isa sharafta si fiican baa loo soo doontaa laakiin naag dhulka is dhigto oo nimankana la seexato tan lee u dambeyn... uhuuu
fariid faraxalan iga dheh. that's how respectful confident women speak :up: :mrgreen:

indeed hadaad baqti jidka oola iska dhigto, waa lagugu tumanaa maa sheegtaye aqir kaaga meesha ku ureysaa!!
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Meesha waxaa iiga muuqata hablaha Snet inay yahiin hablo lagu soo bar baariyey diinta islaamka iyo dhaqan wanaagsan :up:
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Kolombo wrote:
Cawar wrote:Not being proud of your past..esp. if it involves bad things.. is essential to thowba 7assanah sow maaha??
Regret for your sins is a requirement for repenting.

1. Regret

2. Ceasing the sining.

3. Intention to not return to it.

Without any of these three conditions, repentence will not be accepted.

My only problem is No. 1..the other 2 I can deal with. Insha Allah we will all be able to do so. :up:
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Re: Would You Marry...

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We really don't need to know that your future wife has had a few trains run on her.
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Re: Would You Marry...

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Lool! Men sure have maaskaax yaar! waryaahe you were messing with her too! Don't act like you just found her in a strip joint!

Well I would suggest you find out about her past like did she cheat on her past ex's if she has a strong iman, what kind of values does she believe in etc... But most importantly ask Allah in satatul istiqara for guidance. One more thing when are you going to stop fooling around with her? she obvioulsy passed the driving test :lol: You know what I find funny with Muslims nowadays, how do you expect Allah to bless your marriage if you started it off the wrong way? Good luck anyhow!
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Re: Would You Marry...

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Cawar wrote:
Kolombo wrote:
Cawar wrote:Not being proud of your past..esp. if it involves bad things.. is essential to thowba 7assanah sow maaha??
Regret for your sins is a requirement for repenting.

1. Regret

2. Ceasing the sining.

3. Intention to not return to it.

Without any of these three conditions, repentence will not be accepted.
yu right the first one is harder because some scholrs say to rgret means to cry for you sins and feel very ashamedf them.

My only problem is No. 1..the other 2 I can deal with. Insha Allah we will all be able to do so. :up:
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