GUUR best age to get married

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GUUR best age to get married

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For guys i think 23-26

for women/gaabdo 19-23

it depends if you find the jaceyl/love of your life dou so allah knows best lakin what you peeps think also you have to have something to support yourselves like gd income/job be gd in deen have trust etc.
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there is no time limit!

certain ppl gona have a field trip with that statement :lol:
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Men 28 29 27... reason being there more mature and SHOULD have a well paying job

women 23 24 22... again mature ... and relatively educated... cuz uneducated mothers give birth 2 dumb kids ...

most somalis are a gud example :lol:
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the younger u are the better.. less dhembi :up:
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^ Waa Ruun.

Anything above 16.
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But wat about those women who wants if finish the education first??
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^^

stop with it
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for girls 18 24 anything older is expired and not needed :down:


As for guys 27+ You girls need a mature guy not sum ciyaal who will kick n link his friends in the club while your stuck at home with the kids. Basically one whos been there and done that...coz he wont do it again!!! u cant afford to make a mistake ...

us guys can make mistakes but you girls cant lol
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There is no perfect age-- every individual is different marry when your ready to take on that responsibility and your physically and mentally mature enough to handle the hardship it brings..Marriage is not something you just decide overnight, be wise and ask Allah for guidance.
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^^ wise words and very true walee... couldnt of said it better..

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[quote="Ikhlas"]There is no perfect age-- every individual is different marry when your ready to take on that responsibility and your physically and mentally mature enough to handle the hardship it brings..Marriage is not something you just decide overnight, be wise and ask Allah for guidance.[/quote]

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FOR GUYS: 25+ because the need to mature before they marry and under 25 is just plain ciyaal

FOR GIRLS: anything above 16-25. perfect. but she has to be educated i agree. because un-educated women take lotta sh!t from their husbands, and plus they rely and depend on them too much. and thats one of the reasons why somali women/girls have never became prowerfull, well known, and educated women and they not known for that.
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Post by miss_sweets »

Biologically yes getting married at a young age is good or whatever

BUT MENTALLY NAH AAAAAAAH :down:

Divorce in somali marriages have increased and lets be honest its cos people ain't mentally ready, look at the people back home, they mature more quickly cos they have ENOUGH RESPONSIBILITY. As were the low lives here don't, ok yeah dembi wise its great but then what....you get married do the dirty, it doesn't work out then your back to SQUARE NUMERO UNO :down:

oh and worse case senerio----- you become a single PARENT at the age of what.............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nah you gotta be mentally ready to handle married life..... any parent will tell you, it has its trails and tribulations :down: :up:

Still everyone has their own opinion...!!!!!!!!!!!! Gotta respect that :up:
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lol, between 19-23 for females? being ambitious and reaching your goals takes years... if a female sets out to do exactly that, i doubt she'd get married at that age range.
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Post by Newboy »

guur is over hyped you know , why i can have one chick when i can have a different chick every day in the week .....if you know what am saying
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