males, does this happen to u, and females do u do this?

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

those kinda guys have a name...."soft"

[suga_n_spice]

yung, haa dee. miskiin he's lucky to even b with her. and worst of all he's handsome, nice body. he can get any girl he wants. whenever i ask my friend about him, she's like "he never makes me mad" i'm like, if u never get mad that is not a healthy relationship. i mean u should get mad. btw, they aren't "soft" they just have hearts and they happen to want a girl. im sure u was a sucka fo luv b4

BG,

if u dont use men, what the hel.l r u gonna use. if they let u, take advantage. what do u care. and plze dont give me that "im independent" bullshi.t bcuz a man doin things for u doesn't mean ur not independent. it just means ur smart

men aren't weak unless they want u!

[The_Emperior5]

suga walahi shaydaamaad baad tahay men are not weak unless they want you
walahi hadalkasii wa xadiis

[suga_n_spice]

emperior, saxiib. shedaamad ma ahi oo nimanka waa u naxariistaaye. lakiin nimanka ayeey ku xirantahay sidee iska dhigaan.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

yung, haa dee. miskiin he's lucky to even b with her. and worst of all he's handsome, nice body. he can get any girl he wants. whenever i ask my friend about him, she's like "he never makes me mad" i'm like, if u never get mad that is not a healthy relationship. i mean u should get mad. btw, they aren't "soft" they just have hearts and they happen to want a girl. im sure u was a sucka fo luv b4

What good does how u look do hadaa hadalba Af Ingriis ku kicin karin? At some point in the relationship, there's a chance he's gonna have to communicate with her...and being on the phone makes that chance skyrocket. Unless she can speak Somali fluently of course, which most Somalis qurbaha ku soo koreen can't (from personal experience).

Me, sucka fo luv? Inadeer, caayda maad joojisid

[suga_n_spice]

wah! wadno ma lihid?! qof ma jeclaan kartid?! anyhow, he understands and speaks english, but he isn't too fluent. they dont seem to have a problem so... btw, a nice body is everything these days. young women want six pack abs etc.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

Gabar waan jeclaan karaa lakiin please believe my wallet's staying in my pocket until there's a rock on her finger...buying girls cars, jewelry, clothes, etc? Shiiiiit nasiib bayba leedahay hadaan McDonald's ka bixiyo before we're married .

U have a point tho...being in shape does matter, for both genders. Some girls except a dude who hits the gym daily while they themselves stay lookin like talaajaday cuntada ka dhameeyeen

[suga_n_spice]

allahu akbar. maxaa lagugu falaa marka jeeb taraq yahoow!!
not even ur girlfriend?! do u have trust issues?!

i hope ur not one of those guys who let girls pay when u go on dates. that is just sad!

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

Nah, i don't have trust issues....ok fine, i do. I know waxaa ka dambeeyo if u make a habit of buying females stuff...maalinka dambe, she's gonna show up to the restaurant with 3-4 of her homegirls lookin like football players ayagoo gaajeysan oo bila-shillin ah...talkin about "i hope u don't mind if i brought some of my friends "

Let girls pay on dates aa? Weliba i insist they pay...if they want equal rights, they can start by picking up the bill

[suga_n_spice]

yung, u r hilarious. did u say bring her friends?! dang that's ghetto. ish. reer badiyiin iga dheh.

btw, that's not true saxiib, not all females expect u to buy them everything especially during the beginning. in fact, recently i've been seeing girls with "their" boyfriends buying things themselves. i mean how embarassing is that. aqas. if the guy ain't even coverin ur food, movie ticket why b with him?! that's is a big NO. do u just want his company?! hell no!

for instance, some of my friends have a bunch of guy friends and sometimes when we all go out, everyone has to pay themselves (we're all somali btw) i mean how freakin embarassing is that?! im not sayin it's bad for everyone to cover themselves, but i've always been the type of person to pay for my friends and they pay for me when we go out....only ladies though, but if there r guys with us they have to cover it. that's just how i see it. what man would allow for gabdho to pay?!

it's somalinimo to be generous. hadii kale guryahiina kala jooga!

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

im sayin, marka dambe wey u baraneesa and anything's possible after that...waxayba gaari karta heer ay dhahdo "war waan daahsanahay ee, lacagta ii dhiib...gurigaan cunto ka dalban doona"

@ not all females expect it...soo adiga ma aheen qofta babygirl ugala talineyse iney nin isticmaasho?! . I don't see nuthin wrong with going dutch and each person paying for themselves...i've seen one too many girls who want their man paying for dinner & a movie...every single damm day of the week...and homeboy ends up needing to get another job just to pay for his relationship. Waxaas oo kale taag uma haayi!

U seriously expect co-workers to pay for u just cuz they're males?! Ileen gabartii suga_n_spice waaba gold-digger caadi ah . Don't get me wrong, if it's my homegirl and she's hungry but she's broke, i'll buy her sumthin to eat...lakiin it should be seen as a gesture of friendship, not an expectation. Mida i weydiiso "yung, waan gaajeysanahay lakiin lacag ma heesti, cuntada ma iga bixin kartaa?" ayadoo been iga buuxineeso...i'll tell her i'm sorry but i left my wallet at home, then proceed to eat a full meal SUPERSIZED right in front of her XAASIDNIMO

[suga_n_spice]

fyi, i said my friends guy friends. anyhow, it's not about gold diggin at all. gabdhaha ayagoo wax heystaa ee nimanka wax kasta ka qataan. it doesn't mean that we're broke at all. yes i did advice BG to take advantage because why be with a man if he's not spoiling u. maxaan ka helaa a man's company bal iisheeg?! i would rather stay at my house bcuz my time is precious. lol. btw, im not talkin about gettin something to eat on lunch breaks heedhe im talkin about goin out to restaurants etc. are u saying that 5, 6, 7 capable somali guys would allow their fellow somali sista's to pay for their own outing?! ilaahay iguma keeno in aan qof baryo oo dhaho wax aan cuno ii gad, but at the same time it's about respect.

ok seriously, how embarassin is it to tell the waitress, "yeah it's gonna be all on separate checks" subxanallah, walaahay if i could i would pay for everyone with me! hadii kale, i would either go with close close friends or just stay home.

p.s. u need to stop being cheap waraa

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

I understand the wifey...but being obligated to pay for a casual girlfriend or a female who's just a friend, with her own bank account?! I can understand in rare circumstances, lakiin making it an expectation maskaxda igama gasho. If it was my friend's sister and we worked together, i'd offer to pay for her the first time out of respect for my friend...lakiin caadi ahaan uma dhaceeso, waxaas aniga isticmaal baan u heesta...weliba isticmaal aan waxba ka faa'ideenin.

It ain't embarassing at all to tell the waiter/waitress "seperate bills please"...2009 baa la jooga, ayaamihii dumarka loo diidi jiray afaaraha society-ga ku saabsan inay ka qeyb galaan waa la dhaafay...hadey rabaan inay raga la simnaadan, boorsada miiska ha soo saaraan!

@ "maxaan ka helaa a man's company bal iisheeg?! i would rather stay at my house bcuz my time is precious. lol."

wah! wadno ma lihid?! qof ma jeclaan kartid?!