Iskawarama

[1nemansquad]

..meesha maxaa kuhesaan?

..so, my sister-inlaw to be wants to share a place with me and i'm strongly against it, how do i say NOOO without sounding harsh and i naturally sound or come off as harsh even when i'm not

..so throw some ideas around please and i will see which one i like

[Navy9]

hmm, tell her you love to move around in your place naked.

[godness]

share a place with u
as in share a flat together ..

why not she might even do the cleaning for u

[1nemansquad]

hmm, tell her you love to move around in your place naked.

..i do that though its true

..goodness, yes share a flat together and its really a bad idea if you know what i mean

[LaQaNyO]

If she is your 'wife to be sister' then just tell her you need your privacy... why would that be seen as harsh?
However, if she is your Brothers 'wife to be' then move out chuck... maxa meesha ku dhigey?

[black velvet]

Why would she even consider that? I think she's not caadi

I would laugh when she suggested it (give her the opportunity to play it as a joke) If not stop laughing then ask her if she's serious. Has she thought of the implications? What would society think? What would your brother think? Shidh chick is up to something

[godness]

1mANS ...

waar naagta kaa tuur mesha .. tell her bax nayaaa

[1nemansquad]

..bv, its my chicks sister not my brothers wife to be

[abgaalKING]

Do what ever you want sxb.good luck with her.

[black velvet]

..bv, its my chicks sister not my brothers wife to be

Let me point out that that is not normal

She's either a cheapskate or she's up to no good or she's just stupid. So I would deal with her depending on which of these she is

Cheapskate - Find a female friend she can stay with or cheap accomodation

Up-to-no-good - Tell her to fck off with a smile on your face

Stupid - Smack her out of it

Do you think that would work

[1_londoner]

..bv, its my chicks sister not my brothers wife to be

Well, what does ur chick have to say about this?...

[1nemansquad]

..bv, i will go with the 'fock off' with a smile on my face and also not using those terms exactly

..londoner, she thinks is kareeeysiii and iistubidh and she asked me to decline it politely

[Gifted]

Tell her "I don't think that would be appropriate but I can help you find a cheap place", that way you seem polite and helpful.

[LaQaNyO]

I dont understand why the sister can't deal with the sister... i dnt mean to stir anything but dude its not your place to be doing the dirty laundry (on this occasion)!

[Firefly]

1nemansquad:- Salaam walaal. I think you should just tell her it's not appropriate, and if she still insists then get your girl to have a chat with her, insha-Allah. Btw, congratz on getting married, is it official now?