That one Friend..

[Xamari_76]

Who was always around never really looked at them in that way..but all of sudden now this person is in a relationship..but now you have feelings for this person..do i have feelings for this person simply because i cant have him? when he was in front of me showing me signs..seems like i totally chose to ignore him or is it real love? Because when ever he would be there for me id wouldn't look at him twice.. Does anyone here think jealousy is human nature, or is it a fault that must be apologized for? Is this my ego pride?..selfish of me?

[suga_n_spice]

i swear i thought u was a dude!

anyhow, u'll b ok boo. u don't want him, ur just mad that he isn't praisin u anymore. men like that give us confidence and boost our self-esteem. the only way to b satisfied is to see if he still wants u even with his new girl. try flirtin with him or something. other then that don't stress it u'll get another one to replace him in no time.

[oldenglish]

I'm here sit on my lap

[Raniyah_]

Why don't you tell him how you feel and see what he does. He prolly started the other relationship just to get you jealous so he can get your attention.

[Serena]

Who was always around never really looked at them in that way..but all of sudden now this person is in a relationship..but now you have feelings for this person..do i have feelings for this person simply because i cant have him? when he was in front of me showing me signs..seems like i totally chose to ignore him or is it real love? Because when ever he would be there for me id wouldn't look at him twice.. Does anyone here think jealousy is human nature, or is it a fault that must be apologized for? Is this my ego pride?..selfish of me?

It's selfishness. If he were to become single again, you'd probably become disinterested again. You don't want him, but you don't want anyone else to have him either. Don't confuse that for love darlin'.

[black velvet]

Who was always around never really looked at them in that way..but all of sudden now this person is in a relationship..but now you have feelings for this person..do i have feelings for this person simply because i cant have him? when he was in front of me showing me signs..seems like i totally chose to ignore him or is it real love? Because when ever he would be there for me id wouldn't look at him twice.. Does anyone here think jealousy is human nature, or is it a fault that must be apologized for? Is this my ego pride?..selfish of me?

It's selfishness. If he were to become single again, you'd probably become disinterested again. You don't want him, but you don't want anyone else to have him either. Don't confuse that for love darlin'.

Cosign

It's not you it's female nature, we are bitches. You don't want him but you always want him to want you.