Its safe to say

[ms.naliaa]

That m o s t men are intimidated/thrown off by women who are successful and got their shit together.

At first, they're cool with it...even congradulate you...and after a few weeks they realize you have a packed work schedual, you have friends and family that are always ringing/visiting you. And for retarted reasons they think that their presense wouldnt make a difference and start making little comments like "oh ms.independent"
And normally, it woudlnt bother you....but the attitude is what annoys u (and by you i mean me)

Rubbish.

[aka-peace-]

i love isgu fileen woman, it means she can pay for the bills when you take her

[Cawar]

Lol. Some men are insecure thanks in part to the west.. you can't blame them.

[AbdiWahab252]

I like my women: cute, well mannered, submissive and quiet.

[black velvet]

There is no point rubbing your success in his face because it does matter to a man regardless of how liberal he may think he is.

Lakin if just can't handle your success full stop. Then he needs to grow a spine, he's not worth the time.

[ms.naliaa]

peace n cawar:

I dont beleive you two....

AW:
go to Saudi.

BV:
I totally understand that men have egos the sice mars...but Im not gonna dumb myself down for someone....lol

[AbdiWahab252]

Nalia,

Why Saudi when I can stay right here and meet my Raaliyo.

[ms.naliaa]

Nalia,

Why Saudi when I can stay right here and meet my Raaliyo.

Raaliyo will take half when she meets me

[AbdiWahab252]

Nalia,

As long as she is good to my kids, who cares about $$.

[black velvet]

I din't say dumb down, just consider his feelings

[ms.naliaa]

I din't say dumb down, just consider his feelings

This is what Im thinking:
When you met me, you know what my life was like. You know how much I work, you saw where I lived, you the car I drive, you noticed I have a family and friends...you saw it all....so whats changed? other than your attitude...

[aka-peace-]

I din't say dumb down, just consider his feelings

listen walaalo dont you dont have to consider his feeling, why should you be ashamed of your success which you have earned. he should be proud of your success. as long as you are not belittling him and looking down him and i can see what the problem is. if a man cannot accept you for who you are, you should tell him to one.

[shaamboo]

That m o s t men are intimidated/thrown off by women who are successful and got their shit together.

At first, they're cool with it...even congradulate you...and after a few weeks they realize you have a packed work schedual, you have friends and family that are always ringing/visiting you. And for retarted reasons they think that their presense wouldnt make a difference and start making little comments like "oh ms.independent"
And normally, it woudlnt bother you....but the attitude is what annoys u (and by you i mean me)

Rubbish.

lool @ congradulate you
Nalia Iam so special so special iam so special

[Ladane21]

Nalia,

I'm not sure the type of Dudes you're hanging around with, but We're greatly appreciate and value Educated, Independent, and Growth oriented sisters.......and see it good Asset to have to survive in today's economic meltdown.......

[black velvet]

People we are all one the same page.

He chose you for who you are and your success is part and parcel of that. Like Peace said, it's the looking down on him or belittling him that I'm talking about. Please remember offense is not how you mean something to look/sound but how the other person takes your words/actions. When problems arise look at it from his point of view as well, are you putting him 2nd, 3rd, 4th on your list? If so of course he would be upset, especially if he's serious about you.