Waxaa Wax Walba Ka Daran!

[Afraa*]

Young boys who are corrupted by these men who are obsessed with more than two wives...They think it is a must to marry than one wife...Subxaana Allaah...

Where in the Quran it says" It is a must that a man marries more than one wife?" Infact Allaah SWT is warning in his own way about polygamy :

"Wa in khiftum Allaa Tacdilu Fawaaxidata."..Allaah says...

So tell me, is there any Somali man we know that did Caddaala? Never happened..Everyone dumps the first one who struggled with him..probably started with a hard life like Askari iwm but as soon as he is promoted to Colonel he wants to change the old women..and brings a fresh 15 yrs old whom he builds new house etc..

It is scary to see young boys at the age of 17 and 24 thinking of marrying more than one wife...

Ofcourse there are few, very few exceptions.....But that is insignificant...

kambuli,

I agree that men shouldnot use women like napkins and get with the next fresh thing when a little money comes their way, but I see this as a good thing. As long as the men/boys intend to treat them fairly and just.

I honestly support the whole idea of polgamy, because Allah(swt) has made it halal for the man so who are we to say No.
Its takes a woman who has alot of imaan to be ok with a man that has another wife or marry another wife. But we have to know that we are all going to die so wat diff does it really make?!

[RebelLion1]

Marry more than one woman? who wants all that responsibility and headache?

The funny thing is, it's always the brokest dudes who have more than one wife.

[kambuli]

Navy,

Thanks for your genuine answer.

Rebbelion,

Good iskaga ekow xabaddaas, carruurtana la kori..

Skippa,

Thank you also, for your wisdom and reasoning. All I am pointing out is the Aaya next to the first one that most men use it to marry multiple wives. Ayaat always compliment each other..It is not right to take one Aaya out of the context. I read one shiekh explaining that Aaya itself in a Quraan translation many years ago, which the Shiekh stressed that, Because only Allaah can do Caddalla people are advised to be confined in one. Wallaahay i read..I am not making up..There is no reason to lie about the Quran.

If you are in the States go and visit Ohio and Minnesota and just check what is going on.
If you listen to the stories about back home you will be surprised too. Why only us? Why not the Pakistanis, Indians, Malaysians etc etc? simply waa la qaran jabay..hablihiina waa qaran jabeen kolkaasaa laga dhigey tubey taano..Kolkaasaa la isugu markhaati furayaa waa ok in saddex saddex iyo afar afar loo guursado sabab la'aan..Just for the sake of fun Kolkaasaa caruurtii Jailasha ka buuxsantay ama Gangs wada noqdeen...
Anyway mar labaad mahadsanid...

Gabdhaha sababta ay raali uga noqonayaan waxaa weeye, looma oggola inay ajaneebi guursadaan. Waxaa laga dhaahdiciyey "Waa inaad guursataa Somali keliya" Somaaligiina wuxuu yidhi" Raali maka tahay in lagula guursado mese waad iskasoo taagnaan?

[Sagaashan]

kambuli, someone might have posted this, but one of the problems caused by such arrangements:

Maxkamadda darajada koowaad ee magaalada Boosaaso ayaa maanta la soo taagay gacan-ku-dhiigle Ifraax Cali Aadan oo shalay gelinkii danbe magaalada Boosaaso ku dishay Marxuumad lagumagacaabi jiray Sucaad Maxamed Cabdi oo la isla qabay.

Dilka ay Ifraax u gaystay Sucaad Maxamed waxaa uu ka dhacay Aaga Hotel Imaaraat ee magaalada Boosaaso ,waxaana la sheegay in uu ka dhashay khilaaf hoose oo labadooda dhexmaray. Xeer ilaaliyaha Maxkamadda Gobolka Bari Axmed Taaraan ayaa Maxkmadda ka hor akhriyay danbiga loo haysto Ifraax Cali Aadan ,isagoo sheegay in ay hayaan cadeymo la xiriira dilka ay geysatay

Maxkamadda ayaa markaas kadib weydiisay Ifraax in ay gashay dambiga dilka ah ee loo haysto iyo in kale ,waxaaney Maxkamadda horteeda ka sheegtay in dembigaas gashay ,waxaase ay xustay in iyada markii hore la soo weeraray.

Sidoo kale waxaa Maxkmadda lagu soo bandhigay Mididii ay dilka ku geysatay Ifraax Cali Aadan. Marxuumadda la dilay ayaa waxaa Aabbe u ah guddoomiyaha Maxkamadda Boosaaso Maxamed Cabdi Awaare.

Maxamed Madoobe oo ah Abuukaatihii u doodayay Ifraax Cali Aadan ayaa Maxkamadda u soo jeediyay in baaritaan Caafimaad la geeyo Ifraax, isagoo sheegay in aysan caadi ahayn gabadhan xiligii ay dambiga geysaneysay.

Uga dambayntii Guddoonka Sare ee Maxkamadda ayaa ku xukumay Ifraax dil toogasho ,waxaana xukunka gabdhan uu imaanayaa ,iyadoo xukunno kala duwan ay dhawaantan fulisay maxkamadda darajada koowaad ee Magaalada Boosaaso.

Faysal Maxamed Xasan (Boston), Hiiraan Online

[kambuli]

Afraa, quote " I agree that men shouldnot use women like napkins and get with the next fresh thing when a little money comes their way" This I agree with you... This is exactly what I am talking about..

Rebbelion,

The whole "Dood" started because of this