What is the key to a good marriage?

[HELWAA]

Impo

He is only 19 and i suspect he grew up with this mentality..Marriage is not important ur education comes first...he thinks exactly like my younger sisters.They have no desire to get married either but they are well mannered and full of xaya.

[Cawar]

horta dadkani wada signleka ah how can they give marriage advice?...seems they have all the answers.

thats why i move these shids to the women's section

Stop bluffing nicca and just do it.

I just opened a thread where a chick was talking about her period..

[The_Emperior5]

Impo

He is only 19 and i suspect he grew up with this mentality..Marriage is not important ur education comes first...he thinks exactly like my younger sisters.They have no desire to get married either but they are well mannered and full of xaya.

maalin kalle ayuu garan doona hayara korro eeh daa Dumarka na wax nijaasuu oo haysta laakin akhirka isaga iska fahmi doona inay isaga asturii doonan

[HELWAA]

Impo

When you get married in ur 30s you're mature enough to handel many problems laakin markaad yar tahy iska qayro masuul baad tahy oo dulqaadkuna aad buu kugu yar yahy.Sidaas daradeed bay dad badan isku furan.

Marka in a way Fah is right.Dont rush intu marriage just cus u want sex.

[The_Emperior5]

abahay wuxu odhan jiiray hadaad naag xaraan ku fuulaysiid bisinka uun oo qabo markaaad dhamaysiiatiid na maydho duca yar akhriso wayseyso ,

laakin imika somalidu waxay hore isku wadda guursadan just because of galmada dumarka naa nin doonta cuncunaya raggi naa naag dooontii baa meel is leh dalam dhe marka wa iska dhibaato. dad aan readdy oo ahayn guur aya wadda guursaday.

[HELWAA]

Marku xiisuhu dhamaadana waa la kala tagaya ..waxaasi guur maaha.You should get married when you want a soulmate to share ur life with..ur sad days ur happy days.A lover who satisfies all ur needs a friend who always there for you and great father or mother to ur children who guides them to the right path.

[Jesteye]

The_Emperior5,

Good friend of mine, his girlfriend purchased a very expensive gift for his birthday and he told her to return the gift. According to him all he wanted was a hug and little gift like a fashionable men's scarf costing £20. And All she wanted was to surprise him.


Lack off good communication = Very bad relationship!

My girlfriend knows the things I like and the things I hate the most.

[pamelax]

What makes gay marriage different from straight marriage, fundamentally speaking? I was reading Pinker's discussions on government in "The Blank Slate", and I had an epiphany on the psychological motives for marriage. Let me know if you feel I'm wrong please, but it's the right to property and inheritance. The comfort in life with knowing that your stuff is protected even after death, that people can't kill you off just to take your stuff. That you've got someone to back you up in the case you stop living. I think there's a minor paradox with marriage with no kids because what happens when both partners die? But I think that has got be one of our instinctual needs: the need to inherit or own our property even after death. Do you think this is off base?

[abduljrus]

I have no time to read this whole thread (i read some) but if you want the KEY to a good marriage, look in the bedroom.

if you satisfy a girl good enough, even if you do have problems, she would never want to leave a good man who can satisfy her night in and night out.

[Xaaji_Xundjuf]

Horta why do all people say the key to a good marriage is sex oo wa in sii fiican sariirta la isku garriyo.
well me and my expartner had the best sex ever every 4 times a week. and the relationship still failled. and we where seperated

[Madd_Scientist_]

You can't stop problems from happening, its impossible to do so. Its how you deal with them that counts. The only advice I would give is be patient, be understanding and be fair. No need to be all macho 24/7, show some compassion once in a while and most importantly treat her right as the religion requires. Its not easy, but its done all the time. Compromise. Don't lose your akhirah over someone, check yourself and work to improve your aqeedah.

well said kolombo!!

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Sheekada badi laakiin "hadalka" yaree.

yeah...good loving too.

[S-D-M]

Emp,

A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished, so the solution is never marry

[Ladane21]

Kolombo, Hyper and others have said all keys to a good marriage.

I will add Communication, Compromise, and Confidence will take you far. Work on these skills and your marriage will last long time. Also, Sex is only 25% of the relationship according to the experts.

Basra,

Had your aunts slept with other guys? You said they accepted abusive behaviors due to a great sex.....If they have not tried with other guys, how do they evaluate if actually what they getting is great?