Marriage roles, Husband & Wife

[Mr_Harti]

the problem is here in the west alot of somalis have forgotten what their role is, most men dont really know what their role is as a husband and nearly all somali women totally forgot what their role is as a wife. marriage is simple a womans role is her house and children and a mans role is to provide for his family and their needs, ge these roles twisted and you have high divorce rates, do not let these western societies lie to you about empowering yourself with their lies seek advice and knowledge from islam its much better. once you get a full undrestanding of what islam says about your role as a partner then you would not be on the divorce statistic.

[HELWAA]

weger

[ms.naliaa]

the problem is here in the west alot of somalis have forgotten what their role is, most men dont really know what their role is as a husband and nearly all somali women totally forgot what their role is as a wife. marriage is simple a womans role is her house and children and a mans role is to provide for his family and their needs, ge these roles twisted and you have high divorce rates, do not let these western societies lie to you about empowering yourself with their lies seek advice and knowledge from islam its much better. once you get a full undrestanding of what islam says about your role as a partner then you would not be on the divorce statistic.

And how many men do you know 'provide' for their families????

[Mr_Harti]

helwaa ani indhaha maa ii rogrogees..? and what does weger mean, walahi i looked it up on dictionary.com and this is what i got :No results found for weger:: check it here http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/weger

ms nalia every man itrs his duty to provide for his family

[black velvet]

Yes he should provide nevertheless nothing wrong with a woman working because she likes having her own money.....as well as his Man I love Islam

[HELWAA]

weger iyo saleeliy toona kama helaysid dictionaryga ee waxba ha ku wareerin.....sababta aan indhaha kuugu warwareejinaya waxa wayaan, maanad ahayn ninki yeri naagtaydi ba iga baxsatay oo ilmahaygiy maan arag labo sano cus waxaad noqotay isbiirtoole...you're addicted to alcohol and here you're giving us advice about how a wife nd husband should be......oh plz..first get ur life together sakhraan yaho .

[Mr_Harti]

helwaa that was over a year ago, alot of things have changed walaashiis since then, and the reason i made this topic is after all this time i found the bottom of the problem ive asked myself alot of questions which i didnt know the ander to back then. and this topic is not a bad topic, it is to encourage our younger brothers and sisters so they dont make the same misktakes me and you made Helwaa. why are u so angry at me walaashiis.?

[HELWAA]

Me and you aaaa ???...plz count me out from ur miserable life waryee, i hope i never take that road and drink....su'aal...do you still drink?????

[kambuli]

True that Men know their role It is women who don't know their role and who are brainwashed....Haweenkii Waa Kibreen indeed Bal arka nimankii sidey waajibkoodii uga soo baxeen:

http://www.aminarts.com/APR_24_2009.html

[Mr_Harti]

helwaa im clean for 1 year now, but i want to ask you, if u make a mistake and u learn from it, shouldnt u tell your people where u went wrong and advice them on how to avoid going down that path. adigu helwaa naturally u sound like u suffering from dhiig kar why does everything you say sound so harsh, hadal macaan kii yaa kuu diiday ama dadka si fican wax ugu sheeg.

kambuli that is really funny

[Keyse_0208]

True that

im laughing at Kambuli saying True that guaaaaaaaaaan Gangsta Islaaan

[kambuli]

Keyse,

Xishood dee Don't call me gansta..

[HELWAA]

Dhiig kar kugu dhac.....i have very low blood pressure alxamdulilah,

So you're clean now and want share ur wisdom with us? If i were you i would keep it to myself esp my past sins. Just repent and remind urself everyday how much damage ur addiciton coused you.It will not be easy i can tell you that, but as long you pray and put ur trust in Allah you have the power.

[Ladane21]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

[ms.naliaa]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

No they're not.
Can a man give birth?
Can a woman empregnate a man?