Marriage roles, Husband & Wife

[Ladane21]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

No they're not.
Can a man give birth?
Can a woman empregnate a man?

I see that you're over anlayzing again...R U in the finance feild by any chance..I meant actual activities not conceiving/delivering babies.

[onesalahadin]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

Believe me even if !!!! but unless you all come from africa and start life here together but if you find each others here they will always be a problem who da boss even if she is housewife and you do all the shid

[HELWAA]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

Well said

Somali men leave the whole responsibility to the wife...she supposed to be...the one who take care of everything at home from cleaning to cooking,Take care of the kids, play with them, raise them to be god muslims...be everwhere with them in school, doctor appointments.

I mean seriously who needs them bal...faaidada ay aqalka oo joogan maxay tahay..to leave their shit, sleep and eat.....to hell with them

No wonder we have many divorces.

[zulaika]

the problem is here in the west alot of somalis have forgotten what their role is, most men dont really know what their role is as a husband and nearly all somali women totally forgot what their role is as a wife. marriage is simple a womans role is her house and children and a mans role is to provide for his family and their needs, ge these roles twisted and you have high divorce rates, do not let these western societies lie to you about empowering yourself with their lies seek advice and knowledge from islam its much better. once you get a full undrestanding of what islam says about your role as a partner then you would not be on the divorce statistic.

huuno, raga waqtigaan gabigood(in yar laga reeba mooyee) waa kheyrmas'uul who expect their wives to bring home the bread, hablahiina waxaa laga wada dhaadhiciye "independent woman" baad tahey ee oradoo ninkaada(that is if she even wants one) xininyaha ka qaad.

this is why you u see the gender roles in marriage have taken on a whole new meaning.

[surrender]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

[LaQaNyO]

Husband and Wife's roles are inter-changeable. There are no something called he/she must do that. Based on my conclusion, not scientific, A lot of marriages ends divorce because Men misunderstood their responsibility.. I beleive that women have no faults majority of the broken houses... What I noticed is that We(men) doesn't want to take a leadership roles and we don't lead by example...Our women are the back bones of Somali society and I'm sure without them there are no Somali survival. Guys wanna play around, hang out with fellas, play sports, may be chew chat and expect their women to clean, cook, baby sit and may be work on top of that...You tell me where that leads.

Inter-changeable? I wouldn’t necessarily say so....The roles of a husband and a wife are in harmony with the natural dispositions of both the sexes! Goodness, surely it can’t be that complex to recognize that there is an innate difference between a male and a female therefore there is a difference between a husband and a wife.

The physically stronger sex (the male) is given a greater responsibility concerning economic maintenance and protection as well as the overall leadership of the family.... And you are telling me that is interchangeable just like that?


Mr Harti.. you have some valid points... Let's just say Satan is working hard these days!

[Ka darag]

I DNT CARE..I DIDNT GET EDUCATED TO SIT AT HOME..IM GONA WORk