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Serena wrote:abdisamad has a point. many somali women willingly marry ex-convincts who have converted to islam so how is this any different? some women like "bad boys". i think they deserve what they get.
Serena,
Bless your heart. We have little tolerance for our own rejects but higher tolerance for foreign rejects.
Serena wrote:abdisamad has a point. many somali women willingly marry ex-convincts who have converted to islam so how is this any different? some women like "bad boys". i think they deserve what they get.
Serena,
Bless your heart. We have little tolerance for our own rejects but higher tolerance for foreign rejects.
serena is a diamond princess, we must cherish women like her and hold her above the rest
When an ciyaalsuuq guy is sent back to Somalia to get married to some poor unsuspecting girl, do you think the girls family gives a shit what this guy has been up to in his past time? They are looking to cash in big time. Their girl is going to Europe and now they have another source of income for life.
They quickly do a risk/benefit analysis. And they'd rather have their $200 a month for life sent to them by their daughter & ciyaalsuuq husband [or ex-ciyaalsuuq].
Serena wrote:abdisamad has a point. many somali women willingly marry ex-convincts who have converted to islam so how is this any different? some women like "bad boys". i think they deserve what they get.
Serena,
Bless your heart. We have little tolerance for our own rejects but higher tolerance for foreign rejects.
serena is a diamond princess, we must cherish women like her and hold her above the rest
May allah bless you and your family serena
thanks for the blessings AW & Firewall
all the somali women with a liking for 'bad boys' should rehabilitate our rejects instead of being tossed around among jamos & hicks.
We are all humans, and as such, we are prone to mistakes. The prophet (saw)n said all of mankind are sinners, and the best of sinners are those that repent. However, the line is crossed when individuals have no shame for their bad behavior and publicly admit it as some kind of trophy. We have such an individual on this forum whose name is abdiwahab. This fella starts topics by asking which clubs he will be attending, or what things he will like to have made halaal. I don't know whether he practices what he preaches, but good muslim sisters should be warned about dealing with people of that nature (i.e. marrying).
kambuli wrote: Maxaa mid niman badan lasoo seexatay guursatay miskiin aan aqoon iyada..
naag niman badan la soo seexatey, bal maxaa u qarsoon that she can hide from the new guy...like he won't find out soon enough?
Intuusan guri geeysanin ee wadaad isaga dhigeysa ee ku dhaheysa "walaal aniga cambaro luul baa lai yiraahda gabdhaha yar yar aan masaajidka quraanka ugu dhigaa" but once he weds her he is in for the shock of his life after he discovers maqaasinkii yaraa ee uu rabay inuu dego inuu warehouse oo kale yahay
so i guess it happens in both cases. parents to blame here. intay ciyaalkooda kala cararayaan xumaantay kujiraan bay another innocent person dusha kasaaraan. they think a person matures and becomes responsible if they marry them off to 'nice' person. that might be true. but if the person doesnt want to change is only so much you can do.