Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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Re: Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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union wrote:The products of first cousin marriages should be castrated and shunned. Unfortunately a lot of Somalis seem to be the result of such unions and therefore suffer from mild retardation.
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The evidence is there and should not be ignored. Marrying your first cousin is bad news, marry your third cousin if you feel you must stay in the family
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The_Emperior5 wrote:Why not its xalaal if allah says its good its good

Where did Allah say its good to marry your cousin you weirdo?


I'm amazed by the level of ignorance by some muslims wallahi. Even the imam who was in the documentary came across completely foolish when the woman even provided medical evidence to prove this.


Nobody is saying marrying your cousin will result in Handicapped children, they're saying blood related individuals take a much GREATER risk by producing kids with diseases as recessive genes are more likely to be expressed.



As soon as a non-muslim person provides medical argument with proven facts, Muslims throw up their defences and take no heed whatsoever. Its almost as if they're saying "Your a gaalo, kuma dhagaysanayo waxad lehday totally" -- No wonder the western society has advanced so much with science in the 21st century.


Backward/ignorant thinking muslims Arrrggh !! :down: :down: :down:
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Re: Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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schizoprenia has existed through the world and pass on to genes because their descendent married their first cousins. its unnecessary. Unless, the cousin is super cute. :oops:
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Re: Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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GUYS its very simple

it xalal to marry you cousin and if you wish to persue that with your cousin just make sure you guys get yourselves checked for any genetic disorders that may cause harm to your childeren and take the decision based on those results.

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i haven't watched dispatches for time. too much nonsense like panorama.
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BlackVelvet wrote:The evidence is there and should not be ignored. Marrying your first cousin is bad news, marry your third cousin if you feel you must stay in the family

we dont have control over who we marry...wax kasta wa qadar. :?
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Ayeeyo Xilwa wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:The evidence is there and should not be ignored. Marrying your first cousin is bad news, marry your third cousin if you feel you must stay in the family

we dont have control over who we marry...wax kasta wa qadar. :?
your so annoying wax kasta qadar iyo wa wixii illahay no qoro yadadadada
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Ayeeyo Xilwa wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:The evidence is there and should not be ignored. Marrying your first cousin is bad news, marry your third cousin if you feel you must stay in the family

we dont have control over who we marry...wax kasta wa qadar. :?
:lol: Joker

Technically you could walk into a highway and say if you survive waa qadar. You have to study for an exam, you have to make sure the food you eat is clean, you have to make sure the person you marry is compatible with you to the best of your knowledge...you have to take responsibility for your life and not blame God or qadr when things blow up.
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Oxy- wrote:Even the imam who was in the documentary came across completely foolish when the woman even provided medical evidence to prove this.
Time and time again we see Imams and those in position of leadership coming across as foolish on TV. He was aware of the subject of the interview, a simple search would have taught him that there is a health problem affecting his community disproportionately. Instead he came across as reluctant, uncaring and doubful. A simple statement to say that the mosque are concerned about it and they will inform and raise awareness would have sufficed. Why did he agree to go on TV if his answers consisted of "i dont know".
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Re: Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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there some madabs that forbid first cousin marriages and some within the madabs that do where scholars disagree, I wouldn't marry cousin
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You're Great Great Great Grandfather And You're Great Great Great Grandmother Were Cousins

As Somalis We All Got It In Our Family Tree :lol: :clap:
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Ayeeyo Xilwa wrote:Gaalo khurafaat.

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Re: Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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Du$ty wrote:You're Great Great Great Grandfather And You're Great Great Great Grandmother Were Cousins

As Somalis We All Got It In Our Family Tree :lol: :clap:

dont you find it odd your adeer is your abtii :lol:
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Re: Dispatches: When Cousins Marry

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Marrying cousins is not good for the simple reason it reduces genetic diversity in offspring. This effects our evolution.
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