Why did/do you want to get married?

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What's number 1 on your list?

Children - I want to become a mother/father
0
No votes
Family pressure - It's time
0
No votes
Love - I've met the person I want to spend the rest of my life with
3
43%
Sex - I'm horny horny horny
4
57%
 
Total votes: 7

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Why did/do you want to get married?

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Is one reason better than the rest?
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all of the above
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to feel complete
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because its half ur diin. why not that on the list? all i see is gaal reasons with gaal videos. we are muslims.
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burhaan2010 wrote:because its half ur diin. why not that on the list? all i see is gaal reasons with gaal videos. we are muslims.
How is getting married half your deen? In what way does it make you go to heaven? It might be sunnah but how is it half, 50%, 0.5 of 1, how is it mathematically half of your faith? That is a statement that is uttely shockingly used as if it makes sense.
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Advo wrote:to feel complete
Cautiously pokes, what did you vote?
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BV
Why dont you come back and ask us the same question in 10 years time, when your a successful gumays hunting for a faraax to settle down with.
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Xamud. wrote:BV
Why dont you come back and ask us the same question in 10 years time, when your a successful gumays hunting for a faraax to settle down with.
But if I'm a gumays, why would I ask? Your statement makes no sense, work on the insult a bit more and then come back.
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BlackVelvet wrote:
burhaan2010 wrote:because its half ur diin. why not that on the list? all i see is gaal reasons with gaal videos. we are muslims.
How is getting married half your deen? In what way does it make you go to heaven? It might be sunnah but how is it half, 50%, 0.5 of 1, how is it mathematically half of your faith? That is a statement that is uttely shockingly used as if it makes sense.
Because, for most people, it stops them from straying and getting involved in forbidden acts. :mrgreen:
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I could write a thesis on why that makes no sense but I am sure it's unnecessary since everyone who cares to admit it knows that already.

But PB I don't believe you've voted, haye what was your reason?
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For Children :D
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

Post by D-Runner »

BlackVelvet,

The Hadith just shows the importance of marriage... and if it so happens that a Muslim dies single/divorce one doesn't lose half the deen. The important thing is being a righteous Muslims.

In Islam marriage is important precisely because it keeps one away from zina and other immoralities.

The tricky part is finding that pious spouse... Sadly most of us Muslims nowadays get married for all the wrong reasons which is probably why the divorce rate in our generation is pretty high.
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BlackVelvet wrote:Cautiously pokes, what did you vote?
I wouldnt say being a father is the sole reason I wanna get married, no pressure from family and certainly not because im horny, now days people are fawking regardless anyhow, so I voted for Love - I've met the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. :up:
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I want to get married for religious purposes.
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Sex - I'm horny horny horny
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