Why did/do you want to get married?

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What's number 1 on your list?

Children - I want to become a mother/father
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No votes
Family pressure - It's time
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No votes
Love - I've met the person I want to spend the rest of my life with
3
43%
Sex - I'm horny horny horny
4
57%
 
Total votes: 7

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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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I can't see the clips, BV. I don't want to vote for something I can't see. I have a reputation to uphold. :mrgreen:
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People might think you're gay. Of course, there are other important reasons like continuing the clan bloodline :up:
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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Guys don't fall for the dirty tricks of Blackvalvet.

All of you want to get married because of religious reasons.

You can have sex, children, and live with the person you love without getting married. You are all inshallah going to have a nikaah to fulfil the requirements of Allah swt with regards to what constitutes a marriage.
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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LMAO@ religious purposes, why don't you just go to hajj marka? :lol:
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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Advo wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:Cautiously pokes, what did you vote?
I wouldnt say being a father is the sole reason I wanna get married, no pressure from family and certainly not because im horny, now days people are fawking regardless anyhow, so I voted for Love - I've met the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. :up:
Aww, despite your craziness you do have truly inspiring moments :mrgreen:
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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D-Runner wrote:BlackVelvet,

The Hadith just shows the importance of marriage... and if it so happens that a Muslim dies single/divorce one doesn't lose half the deen. The important thing is being a righteous Muslims.

In Islam marriage is important precisely because it keeps one away from zina and other immoralities.

The tricky part is finding that pious spouse... Sadly most of us Muslims nowadays get married for all the wrong reasons which is probably why the divorce rate in our generation is pretty high.
So you would get married inorder to avoid 'zina and other immoralities'?
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^^hAVING sex with your wife is a religious requirement........... :mrgreen:
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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PB It's nothing bad really, you're just avoiding the question :lol:

GaajoUnit wrote:People might think you're gay. Of course, there are other important reasons like continuing the clan bloodline :up:
The fact that you primarily want to get married so that people don't think you're gay is interesting :lol:

But Ilaahey haku siiyo a house full of kids inshallah
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BlackVelvet wrote:LMAO@ religious purposes, why don't you just go to hajj marka? :lol:

:lol: Why don't you ask me if I have performed Hajj before you ask that question?

You can have all the sex you want or get a girl pregnant? what do you think is stopping most people? Why do you think people have nikhaah?
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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I don't want to primarily married because people will think I'M GAY. But if you're 39 and unmarried people might making assumptions. Anyway, people want to get married for a variety of reasons.........much ado about nothing really. :mrgreen:
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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Executive wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:LMAO@ religious purposes, why don't you just go to hajj marka? :lol:

:lol: Why don't you ask me if I have performed Hajj before you ask that question?

You can have all the sex you want or get a girl pregnant? what do you think is stopping most people? Why do you think people have nikhaah?
That is what I'm asking innit, Exec you are kinda slow maanta :lol:

You've kinda danced around it but I think what you're trying to say is people get married/have nikah so that they can have a halal relationship...I can't even say it now coz you've made it sound wrong with all the inuendos :lol: But basically for you it's number 4, haye gartey
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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GaajoUnit wrote:I don't want to primarily married because people will think I'M GAY. But if you're 39 and unmarried people might making assumptions. Anyway, people want to get married for a variety of reasons.........much ado about nothing really. :mrgreen:
Well whomever you marry, I hope she takes some food with her...
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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BlackVelvet wrote:Aww, despite your craziness you do have truly inspiring moments :mrgreen:
:oops:, waan shiixay.
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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Only 3 votes :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: Why did/do you want to get married?

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BlackVelvet wrote:
Executive wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:LMAO@ religious purposes, why don't you just go to hajj marka? :lol:

:lol: Why don't you ask me if I have performed Hajj before you ask that question?

You can have all the sex you want or get a girl pregnant? what do you think is stopping most people? Why do you think people have nikhaah?
That is what I'm asking innit, Exec you are kinda slow maanta :lol:

You've kinda danced around it but I think what you're trying to say is people get married/have nikah so that they can have a halal relationship...I can't even say it now coz you've made it sound wrong with all the inuendos :lol: But basically for you it's number 4, haye gartey


You don't have to act dumb, go re-read the entire line instead of beating around the bushes What I'm saying is None of your options you listed are reasons to get married.
Last edited by Executive on Tue Jan 04, 2011 9:33 am, edited 1 time in total.
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