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The questions do not apply to me, dear. I've been married so long I don't bloody remember why I did it.BlackVelvet wrote:PB It's nothing bad really, you're just avoiding the question
Executive wrote:BlackVelvet wrote:That is what I'm asking innit, Exec you are kinda slow maantaExecutive wrote:
Why don't you ask me if I have performed Hajj before you ask that question?
You can have all the sex you want or get a girl pregnant? what do you think is stopping most people? Why do you think people have nikhaah?
You've kinda danced around it but I think what you're trying to say is people get married/have nikah so that they can have a halal relationship...I can't even say it now coz you've made it sound wrong with all the inuendos
You don't have to act dumb, go re-read the entire line instead of beating around the bushes What I'm saying is None of your options you listed are reasons to get married.
Okay I will spell it out for you. Why don't they go and get a girl pregnant? Because they're Muslim so no they can't, contrary to what you might assume, go sleeping around. So what do they do instead, get married and then sleep with their wife. So it is an option, number 4. And if you could get off your high horse and say it out loud you would realise that your 'religious purposes' are nothing but you wanting to get some, trying to make yourself sound more whatever it is your tring to sound like is just childish.You can have all the sex you want or get a girl pregnant? what do you think is stopping most people? Why do you think people have nikhaah
BlackVelvet wrote:Okay I will spell it out for you. Why don't they go and get a girl pregnant? Because they're Muslim so no they can't, contrary to what you might assume, go sleeping around. So what do they do instead, get married and then sleep with their wife. So it is an option, number 4. And if you could get off your high horse and say it out loud you would realise that your 'religious purposes' are nothing but you wanting to get some, trying to make yourself sound more whatever it is your tring to sound like is just childish.You can have all the sex you want or get a girl pregnant? what do you think is stopping most people? Why do you think people have nikhaah
Did you hear of the mummy's child who was forced to get married because of family pressure, BV? What a pushover he was. Worse than him, of course, was the one who was obsessed with having children. Even worse was the mad one who fell in love and got married straight away before he lost her. But the craziest of the lost was the one that did it because he was horney! Tsk, people eh?BlackVelvet wrote:Your school teachers must have had a hell of a time with you lot.
There is obviously more than one reason for getting married, I doubt anyone is that narrow minded. The question was, what is first, number 1 on your list. In other words, what is your main reason above all the others. Clear enough for you?
The best sex is a halal one; one really feels clean and happy after each session. Marriage though is more then just that physical aspect, having a wife that knows the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach I think is as important. In short, just to have love, trust, respect and above all, Allah in the relationship for me sums up the type of marriage one should be aiming for.BlackVelvet wrote:So you would get married inorder to avoid 'zina and other immoralities'?D-Runner wrote:BlackVelvet,
The Hadith just shows the importance of marriage... and if it so happens that a Muslim dies single/divorce one doesn't lose half the deen. The important thing is being a righteous Muslims.
In Islam marriage is important precisely because it keeps one away from zina and other immoralities.
The tricky part is finding that pious spouse... Sadly most of us Muslims nowadays get married for all the wrong reasons which is probably why the divorce rate in our generation is pretty high.
You think? You know what, you should count your lucky stars that you didn't go to school in Kenya because this is the point that the teacher would grab the blackboard duster and throw it straight at your head.Paddington Bear wrote:Did you hear of the mummy's child who was forced to get married because of family pressure, BV? What a pushover he was. Worse than him, of course, was the one who was obsessed with having children. Even worse was the mad one who fell in love and got married straight away before he lost her. But the craziest of the lost was the one that did it because he was horney! Tsk, people eh?BlackVelvet wrote:Your school teachers must have had a hell of a time with you lot.
There is obviously more than one reason for getting married, I doubt anyone is that narrow minded. The question was, what is first, number 1 on your list. In other words, what is your main reason above all the others. Clear enough for you?
Normal people don't do things for just one reason.
Qoraxeey like you, gabdha would give a straigh answer, too many boys on maanta. Going round and round in circles, just choose one damn it!qoraxeey wrote:
I am a big fan of BlackVelvet topics
Now you just sound like a pervert...maybe this topic is not for you afterall.Executive wrote:Blackvalvet
Okey! I wanna get married cause I want to have halaal sex.
hyperactive wrote:waryaa BV naka fareeso, some people dont marry for one reason, they look at least 5 reasons.
my self when im ready has to be more than 10 reasons.
