Alcha......
i really do wish u had sought therapy on your childhood trauma of molestation.
Anyway, as you know war happens all over the world, its not unique to somalia alone. This is all Allaaah swt will, you cannot explain or exaggerate.
Yes, you are correct the sins that was happening in somalia in the 80s can be considered as Alaah's swt wrath, but that doesnt matter really. War is a fact of humanity all over the world. Sometimes it just happens without any major reason. The iraq and afghanista war for example, what possesed Bush--to invade these two countries just for the hell of it? And how many millions of people have died after that?(including american soldiers) I think war has a purpose for Allaah swt plan, we dont know it, only God knows. Let us just thank Allaah for enabling our lives to be here in the west, peacefully and luxuriously.
Amiiin.
Once one of our maids was raped coming back from outside at night. She could hardly walk when she arrived home. There was also this other maid who used to work for my aunt. She was raped by a male maid and all that happened to him was he got fired. 
Shit used to happen all the time and nobody cared unless your family had money or were connected to more powerful people. Ofcouse it got a thousand times worse after the government was overthrown. Some people try to paint this beautiful picture of Somalia before the war but the truth is Somalia was going downhill for a very long time. Only a few people had money and the rest of the country was suffering. I honestly feel ALLAH is punishing us collectively for our sins. Even if we didnt take part in it we turned a blind eye. All this destruction taking place cant just be on a few warworlds and one dictator, it takes a whole nation to get this sort of punishment.
