Your Ideal Man

[Complicated19]

I agree with u guys in that I dont find the ppl most other girls find attractive, attractive

I have a weird, unique idea of attractive.

[HELWAA]

WestLdn 9 miyaad joogta hada?



Helwaa waa run I shouldn't have said Perfect, lakin all that means is you want 100% of what you're looking for. How much of that would you compromise on adiga do you think? 50%, 70%, 20%, 90% ?

I think when you meet the right person..the one Allah has written for you that long list is out of the window.I know this girl..she is a relative of mine.She met this handsome guy at a wedding.He was perfect in her eyes..well educated, very handsome with a great job.After 3 month of getting to know eachother he asked for her hand.They got married and realty hit them both.You know what they say, you will never get to know a person till you liv with them.Well now 2yrs later she asked for divorce...reason...ninku waa bakhayl.That great guy turned to a monster the minut they got married...counting every penny she spent.

The moral of story is: tawakal cala Allah and hope for the best and pray salaatu istakhiraah.Only Allah know qalbiga qof kasta..si kasto ood nin wanaagsan oo raadisid, ilaahy uun ba og wixi kugu soo hagaagy.But whatever you do never settle for less.

[DisplacedDiraac]

I have a weird, unique idea of attractive.

My sister and friend both say the same thing about me..

[Complicated19]

WestLdn 9 miyaad joogta hada?



Helwaa waa run I shouldn't have said Perfect, lakin all that means is you want 100% of what you're looking for. How much of that would you compromise on adiga do you think? 50%, 70%, 20%, 90% ?

I think when you meet the right person..the one Allah has written for you that long list is out of the window.I know this girl..she is a relative of mine.She met this handsome guy at a wedding.He was perfect in her eyes..well educated, very handsome with a great job.After 3 month of getting to know eachother he asked for her hand.They got married and realty hit them both.You know what they say, you will never get to know a person till you liv with them.Well now 2yrs later she asked for divorce...reason...ninku waa bakhayl.That great guy turned to a monster the minut they got married...counting every penny she spent.

The moral of story is: tawakal cala Allah and hope for the best and pray salaatu istakhiraah.Only Allah know qalbiga qof kasta..si kasto ood nin wanaagsan oo raadisid, ilaahy uun ba og wixi kugu soo hagaagy.But whatever you do never settle for less.

shit happens


stingy bastard he was.. imagine having a stingy husbaand...who loves his money more than u...ilahayow naga ilaali.

[HELWAA]

^^ yup, that is the worst type of men...nin gacan adag ba aduunka ugu daran.

[Complicated19]

Westie, whats ur definition of a wasteman?

[Complicated19]

^^ yup, that is the worst type of men...nin gacan adag ba aduunka ugu daran.

Imagine all the dumb arguments about petty things like ...'show me the receipt for the ASDA shopping'

[DisplacedDiraac]

I think when you meet the right person..the one Allah has written for you that long list is out of the window.I know this girl..she is a relative of mine.She met this handsome guy at a wedding.He was perfect in her eyes..well educated, very handsome with a great job.After 3 month of getting to know eachother he asked for her hand.They got married and realty hit them both.You know what they say, you will never get to know a person till you liv with them.Well now 2yrs later she asked for divorce...reason...ninku waa bakhayl.That great guy turned to a monster the minut they got married...counting every penny she spent.

The moral of story is: tawakal cala Allah and hope for the best and pray salaatu istakhiraah.Only Allah know qalbiga qof kasta..si kasto ood nin wanaagsan oo raadisid, ilaahy uun ba og wixi kugu soo hagaagy.But whatever you do never settle for less.

Miskiiina.. This sounds very similar to what happened to my sister's friend.. But her ex wasn't just a qaajo.. He was also a control freak he would lock her inside the house when he left for work and other madness
I dont believe in rushing into marriage.. All the glitter isn't always gold!

Westie, whats ur definition of a wasteman?

Where can I start..
I'll keep it short.. I AINT CHECKING FOR THE FOLLOWING.. GIGOLOS *well known guy*.. shotta *even a ex-shotta*.. No ambition type of guy, druggie *this also includes regular shisha head* I can go on and on..

[qoraxeey]

lacag
does what I tell him
more lacag
not so attractive ( i dont want other women wanting him)
edcuated
know his religion very good ,,, laakiin not like wadaad type ( ehm yeah they go after 4 wives)
comes from a good family

[Complicated19]

lacag
does what I tell him
more lacag
not so attractive ( i dont want other women wanting him)edcuated
know his religion very good ,,, laakiin not like wadaad type ( ehm yeah they go after 4 wives)
comes from a good family

[Complicated19]

I think when you meet the right person..the one Allah has written for you that long list is out of the window.I know this girl..she is a relative of mine.She met this handsome guy at a wedding.He was perfect in her eyes..well educated, very handsome with a great job.After 3 month of getting to know eachother he asked for her hand.They got married and realty hit them both.You know what they say, you will never get to know a person till you liv with them.Well now 2yrs later she asked for divorce...reason...ninku waa bakhayl.That great guy turned to a monster the minut they got married...counting every penny she spent.

The moral of story is: tawakal cala Allah and hope for the best and pray salaatu istakhiraah.Only Allah know qalbiga qof kasta..si kasto ood nin wanaagsan oo raadisid, ilaahy uun ba og wixi kugu soo hagaagy.But whatever you do never settle for less.

Miskiiina.. This sounds very similar to what happened to my sister's friend.. But her ex wasn't just a qaajo.. He was also a control freak he would lock her inside the house when he left for work and other madness
I dont believe in rushing into marriage.. All the glitter isn't always gold!

Westie, whats ur definition of a wasteman?

Where can I start..
I'll keep it short.. I AINT CHECKING FOR THE FOLLOWING.. GIGOLOS *well known guy*.. shotta *even a ex-shotta*.. No ambition type of guy, druggie *this also includes regular shisha head* I can go on and on..

looooooool at shisha

you've just ruled out 90% of Somali guys

[Murax]

Actually giving real advice here, I'd advice all You Guys to not delay marriage too much.


I see ladies in my area in their 30's and every guy they meet, he says sorry I wanna have kids and you're too old. Sad but true.


Generally speaking the age ratio I see is the girl being 3-4 years younger than the guy give or take. So guys in their late 20's are looking for girls from like 22-25. You get past that age range it starts to get difficult.

[qoraxeey]

Actually giving real advice here, I'd advice all You Guys to not delay marriage too much.


I see ladies in my area in their 30's and every guy they meet, he says sorry I wanna have kids and you're too old. Sad but true.


Generally speaking the age ratio I see is the girl being 3-4 years younger than the guy give or take. So guys in their late 20's are looking for girls from like 22-25. You get past that age range it starts to get difficult.

look at these reer badiye ppl

when is it OLD to have babies in your 30s .. wtf

[Complicated19]

Actually giving real advice here, I'd advice all You Guys to not delay marriage too much.


I see ladies in my area in their 30's and every guy they meet, he says sorry I wanna have kids and you're too old. Sad but true.


Generally speaking the age ratio I see is the girl being 3-4 years younger than the guy give or take. So guys in their late 20's are looking for girls from like 22-25. You get past that age range it starts to get difficult.

look at these reer badiye ppl

when is it OLD to have babies in your 30s .. wtf

Fertility decreases. FACT. You can still have kids, but it's harder.

[BlackVelvet]

WestLdn 9 miyaad joogta hada?

Looks have never been that important to me honestly speaking. I've never fancied the hot guy that all the girls were after, I find them a bit vain and annoying.

@ 9 miyaad joogta hada

Just because I post old men now and again doesn't mean I have a wack taste..

You know what.. I've never really fancied a guy *except maybe 1*.. Anyway I have a ideal look in my head/mind but I've never seen him nor a guy who comes close to him in real life nor on TV/magz..
I suppose I have an unrealistic taste in men..

Plus I've never been into the typical hot guys girls run after either.. They look xuux compared to the ideal guy in my mind

I thought you truly had a bit of a thing for grandfathers to be honest lol and you've only ever fancied one guy? My first crush was when I was 10

This guy in your mind must be super hot for him to be unrealistic, I'm curious, who does he look like/what qualities does he have? I can't imagine that mine can be considered unrealistic. If good character, trustworthyness, honourability and attraction is asking too much then I'm probably not going to be getting married.