Fuuris/Divorce avoid iska illali dadyaxow

[Spursman]

Try your best to avoid it runti cause divorce does affect your ciyaal/children broken home as they will seek jaceyl/love else where like saxibyaal that can be bad influence.

I dont get the aboyaal/fathers that stay away from the ciyaal for long periods of time working/shaqo different wadan for months even years caadi mahaa we need to be there for our ciyaal.

[Spursman]

[Spursman]

maxad uu maleen what u think nooh

[HELWAA]

Has it occurred to you maybe just maybe it was written and you cant change ur fate?

[The_Patriot]

Has it occurred to you maybe just maybe it was written and you cant change ur fate?

yeah but did someone whisper to you its fate ?

come on folks should compromise funny is the way people get married cos of lust and when the fire dies they seek devorce.

I guess its to do with somalis in the west taking western values and ditching Islam.

There is nobody perfect we all have weaknesses so lets not capitalise on it but rather build on our strengths.

[HELWAA]

^^^^I dont think so...pple divorce of many reasons..no woman should stay in a abusive marrige or with drunk husband.
Sometime divorce is a blessing and Allah made it xalaal for a reason.

I doubt lust is the main reason pple get married or get divorced.Subxanallah imagin if every couple ended in divorce the minut they have no desire for eachother...walle cid is qabta maad hesheen.

Wax kasta waa qoraal.

[The_Patriot]

^^^^I dont think so...pple divorce of many reasons..no woman should stay in a abusive marrige or with drunk husband.
Sometime divorce is a blessing and Allah made it xalaal for a reason.

I doubt lust is the main reason pple get married or get divorced.Subxanallah imagin if every couple ended in divorce the minut they have no desire for eachother...walle cid is qabta maad hesheen.

Wax kasta waa qoraal.

soo you mean most of the divorces in the somali communty are from abusive drunk Farax?
Come on Helwa

Somalis have a tendancy to divorce due to petty issues(like sending money abroad, asking too many questions etc) and dont blame it on domestic violence.
Cos surely there are those that are abused and still hanging to the wretched life.

[Spursman]

^^^^I dont think so...pple divorce of many reasons..no woman should stay in a abusive marrige or with drunk husband.
Sometime divorce is a blessing and Allah made it xalaal for a reason.

I doubt lust is the main reason pple get married or get divorced.Subxanallah imagin if every couple ended in divorce the minut they have no desire for eachother...walle cid is qabta maad hesheen.

Wax kasta waa qoraal.

soo you mean most of the divorces in the somali communty are from abusive drunk Farax?
Come on Helwa

Somalis have a tendancy to divorce due to petty issues(like sending money abroad, asking too many questions etc) and dont blame it on domestic violence.
Cos surely there are those that are abused and still hanging to the wretched life.

Horta both of you made good points ruunti agree to disagree waa sidaas