Wives should wear more?

[Rapidwolverine]

Saaxib of course in the house perfume, dahab and her best dirac.
But I mean outside. When women are young they were less clothes to attract men we understand this its haram but they do it to get the attention of men. Well when they get married they should and must stop this and wear maximum clothing.
What I am asking is the clothing of a single woman and the clothing of a married woman must be different correct?

[The_Patriot]

Saaxib of course in the house perfume, dahab and her best dirac.
But I mean outside. When women are young they were less clothes to attract men we understand this its haram but they do it to get the attention of men. Well when they get married they should and must stop this and wear maximum clothing.
What I am asking is the clothing of a single woman and the clothing of a married woman must be different correct?

Dude where do you get this info from?

I mean cawra is cawra and the attire code nevre changes whether they are married or single. Maybe if they are insane or not have reached puberty thats the exception.

[Rapidwolverine]

I am talking about young girls grown up in the west they like to wear clothes a little more revealing to attract a man. Thats why they don't wear hijab and wear pants or skirts and dresses. So when they get married there is no reason to wear this anymore there previous reasoning is not required anymore they got there man. They are married. Now married woman who previously thought in this wrong way should change and wear clothes that detract men.
Do you agree that single girls who wear more revealing clothing should change there attire and wear the clothes that detract would be suitors thus in turn proving she is married and has no interest in them. Yay or nay?

[The_Patriot]

Thats upto them.
But the choice depends on you.

[Rapidwolverine]

But does it not make sense? As a single woman yes we know some wear such clothing to attract men. But once they attarct them and are married there is no reason to carry on with this clothing. It is very simple and makes sense.
What would be the argument for? What blackvelvet said to keep option open astaghfirullah how can your wife think of another man when you are married.

[Rapidwolverine]

I think you should start praying your Fajr and get her up too.
If you keep your salat steady, everything else will come into place. You're the man, you're supposed to take the lead.
A lot of judgmental people on this forum

Thank you brother I didn't think about this. I need to reinforce my salat, when I am lazy I always miss it. I will make this step as well inshaAllah I am very bad at this though brother so its my problem not my wife's I know this.
All I meant by this thread anyway was that do you think once a single woman gets married should she change her clothing to that of a married woman which is more covering clothing to detract males. Anyway very good reminder for my salat brother J/K.

[The_Patriot]

Dude old habits die hard.

Thats why among the best muslims are those that used to sin and repented and became pious.

[Rapidwolverine]

Ok I see brother. Anyway my advice to you never marry for looks

[The_Patriot]

Ok I see brother. Anyway my advice to you never marry for looks

Dude, are you serious? I mean you should marry a wife that gives a glow to your face each time you see her not one that will make you think you are in a halloween party ever day.
4. Aspects to look at

1.Deen
2.Looks
3.Wealth
4.Family

The best is deen. So the option is upto you and how you want to balance the 4 ratios.

[Nabeela]

If she was a skinny jeans, tight t-shirt kinda girl, you can't expect her to change because she married you, just be patient and eventually she will dress modestly.

[FAH1223]

Ok I see brother. Anyway my advice to you never marry for looks

may as well divorce her

oh and if she wasn't dressing modestly before, she isn't going to dress modestly just cause you married her.. you can make suggestions

but stuff like that changes over time.. if shes in her 30s-40s and still wearing the same things, you got an issue

[The_Patriot]

If she was a skinny jeans, tight t-shirt kinda girl, you can't expect her to change because she married you, just be patient and eventually she will dress modestly.

I will be honest you will lay in the bed you made.

You married her for her wearing the T shirt thus stay with the T shirt and tight jeans.

I dont see why one should complain about it.

[TrophY-WifeY-]

Like swedish pple say......som man bäddar får man ligga

She wears short skirt ..and yet you married her.....Allah macaak my friends.Miracles do happen though.So who knows, May Allah guide her to the right path.

what's wrong girls wearing short skirts?????
It's not what you wear it's about how you act, don't you think??

[Nabeela]

If she was a skinny jeans, tight t-shirt kinda girl, you can't expect her to change because she married you, just be patient and eventually she will dress modestly.

I will be honest you will lay in the bed you made.

You married her for her wearing the T shirt thus stay with the T shirt and tight jeans.

I dont see why one should complain about it.

Wow, you made sense, exactly I agree, if you marry someone thinking you will change them later on, you are mistaken, same reason why women like bad boys, they think they can tame them, which never works, once a bad boy always a bad boy.

[Rapidwolverine]

If she was a skinny jeans, tight t-shirt kinda girl, you can't expect her to change because she married you, just be patient and eventually she will dress modestly.

But does it not make sense that now she is a married woman it is time to alter the way she dresses? I seriously think this would make sense, she will look like a single woman and men will hit on her if she wears that after marriage.