Question on dating...

[Beenaale_No1]

So what do you guys suggest? Propse, accept, move in?

Nah, this is the best solution. Althou people's true colours only come out when you start living with them.

[haxxor]

I can't really answer your question, laakin why do people date horta? because the dating phase is all fake, you'd never get to know the real person, waxaa lagu tuso whatever you want to see, i just think dating is a waste of time.

Lust. They see someone they are attracted to physically & personally. They wanna be close to them, and then kissing & touching will happen.

But you are right, they hardly gonna know the real person until they move in with each other. And that can only happen when they marry.

Exactly, hence why we should abstain from dating Hot guys and gals


Haxxor, if you actually believe you will get to know the person by dating, good luck cause you gonna need it.


BV, I dunno

If you met a hot guy and you want him so badly but you don't know if he's perfect person for you, he does cook, or if he is good man. How would you get to know him without dating and/or meeting up.

[BlackVelvet]

So what do you guys suggest? Propse, accept, move in?

Nah, this is the best solution. Althou people's true colours only come out when you start living with them.

So you'd go down the dating route?

Nabeela- rock and a hard place huh?

[Nabeela]

If you met a hot guy and you want him so badly but you don't know if he's perfect person for you, he does cook, or if he is good man. How would you get to know him without dating and/or meeting up.

Well if i met a hot guy and he is perfect for me, I'd marry him lol but seriously, dating and marriage is totally different, dating is just the honeymoon period, of course the hot guy will cook and pamper you, but will he continue with it once aad u so gacan gashid? this silly maahmaah came to mind "naag been baa lagu soo xero galiyaa runa waa lagu dhaqaa"

[caburiye1]

Nabeela,

How about if we do this?

tie the Nikaah, then start dating like the real cadaans and see how that works. You can kiss and freak and even move in with each other to get to know each other. You can even break the guy to sleep over at your momas place. After about a year or two, if you guys still love each other, then settle permanently.If not, Break the Nikaah and part ways.

I think this would be the most halaal dating. The girl and the boy were in halaal dating relationship.

[Nabeela]

If you go through with the meher you are basically married, so maa'ah?

[haxxor]

Nikah is not free, isn't it?

[caburiye1]

If you go through with the meher you are basically married, so maa'ah?

The meher here is to make the dating halal. Whether you continue being together is between the boy and the girl. Meher can be revoked anytime soomaaha? So just tie the Meher, and start dating just to see if you are meant for each other. I mean you have the chance to know each other real good because you can do whatever in however you want. Hada maad fahamtay?

[Nabeela]

If you go through with the meher you are basically married, so maa'ah?

The meher here is to make the dating halal. Whether you continue being together is between the boy and the girl. Meher can be revoked anytime soomaaha? So just tie the Meher, and start dating just to see if you are meant for each other. I mean you have the chance to know each other real good because you can do whatever in however you want. Hada maad fahamtay?

Haa, laakin you'd be considered a divorcee if you changed your mind

[yungnfresh]

Is dating halaal? Obviously, not same as western ways.

For example, you meet a girl/boy you like, you ask him/her out and he/she accepts. Few days later, you meet him/her at dinner/cafe/marfesh and talk to get know each others. Obviously, no touching, kissing or getting laid. Once you know him/her well, you decide if you want to stay with that person for rest of your life, if yes, you marry that person.

Is this halaal? Would you do it?

EDIT: You don't date alone, you bring your best friend with you and tell him/her to sit there few metres away from you to supervise you.

my advice, you know right vs wrong. don't think you can get to something halaal oh kheyr leh by means of something haram. "Dating for the purpose of marriage" is just another way we useless humans justify doing things we know are wrong.

On point.

Studies have actually shown that the success rate of arranged marriages is higher than traditional marriages...probably because with arrange marriages, you don't have as high of expectations and so you're pleasantly surprised when you realize this person is increasingly decent, which then can turn to love.