fighter wrote:I know this one 40-50 year old man who loved a woman and were supposed to get married. But the war broke out and they had to flee. They lost contact for 15-20 yeats.
The man never wanted to marry any woman but her.
Long story short, we ends up finding the woman through the somali grapevine and she ends up being in sweden
He tells her "I missed u, I never wanted to marry any woman other than u. U r my everything"
She says "I loved u too but I'm married with 4 kids. My father had a man for me to marry because he wanted to see his daughter get married before he did since he was very ill and thought he was going to die"
The guy fainted and is a lonely dude and sips coffee at the tim hortons all alone very depressed
Very sad wallahi, and her dad got better and eventaully lives to this day (the only good thing to come out of this)
Ah, now that's qadr.
And yeah, I know a couple men, mostly relatives, that never gotten married. One has an OCD and two others have mental illnesses. The rest, I have no idea as to why they're still single. Looma qorin I suppose.