qabiil before love

[Ladyyonelove]

I really really REALLY love this guy been secretly with him for over 5 years but my family will disapprove of him and now I am on the verge of loosing the love of my life or moving on with him to get married without my families blessings this is the worst position to be put in please someone anyone advice me on what to do?

[Khalid Ali]

Whats his qabil is he midgaan or something and what is ur qabil

[Keyblade]

try to convey to your family that using qabiil to inform life decisions is beyond retarded

[Rabshoole]

With or without their blessings, its your life do as you please.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

What the hell? Is qabiil a caste-system or something? As long as he's somali and a good man, marry whoever you want. I would prefer my daughter to marry a somali guy than some cadaan or madow loser.

[Ladyyonelove]

For the sake of this thread I will leave both his and I's qabiils out although some may already guess what I am lol but no seriously though I know it is my life but I refuse to make such a big decision as marrying someone to be only my decision I want someone hooyo and aboo would approve of after all that is the least I can do for them bringing me into this world

I mean hooyo found out about him she's okay with it but disapproves how he took time off from school to work and hooyo is beyond obsessed with people going to school but if daddy found out I would be killed

Yes some parents still care about qabiil if you think about it bullshit woth qabiil started when our parents were our age watching their parents and granparents suffer so they have a right to be mad or even hate hell I would too if I witnessed something that extreme

[salool]

I really really REALLY love this guy been secretly with him for over 5 years but my family will disapprove of him and now I am on the verge of loosing the love of my life or moving on with him to get married without my families blessings this is the worst position to be put in please someone anyone advice me on what to do?

This is why most girls end up with ajnabis, ignorant parents who refuse them to marry a somali based on his qabiil.Reer baadnimadan goormay joojin doona talow? guur xalaal ah ina qofna lo diido maaha haduuba somali yahy wa alxamdulilah.

My advice is, put ur trust in Allah, sidi ilaahy ka dhigo bey noqon.Laakin nin 5 sano kula dhudhuumanayey ka wax wayn ba ka si ah, damiirkiso sidu oo siiyey inu is qariyo sidii tuuga.

[Khalid Ali]

Just sleep with him get pregnant and than tell ur parents they will make sure u get married to him.

But u should tell us ur qabil and his it will make the whole issue clear.

[Daff]

Well let me give you the best advice in cyber space ever

Tell the family you want to introduce someone that ur intrested, then bring home Jakaakoos.. after both ur parents faint, tell Jakakoos to leave, when ur parents come around and get over the shock, ask them how they feel. ofcourse ur dad will pull out his bakoorad and ur mom her dacas. Wait for 2 weeks and bring the Farax home. You will be surprised how much duco u get on top of that they will pay for the wedding

[Hepburn]

First of all you should always always obey your parents no matter what, they only want what's best for you. You might not realize it now. Don't ever disrespect your parents' wishes for some man, who will eventually leave you for another woman. Introduce him to your family first, let them meet him and let them see him for who he really is, it might actually surprise you that they will accept him. If they don't approve of him, then you know who to choose, YOUR PARENTS.

[DisplacedDiraac]

Well let me give you the best advice in cyber space ever

Tell the family you want to introduce someone that ur intrested, then bring home Jakaakoos.. after both ur parents faint, tell Jakakoos to leave, when ur parents come around and get over the shock, ask them how they feel. ofcourse ur dad will pull out his bakoorad and ur mom her dacas. Wait for 2 weeks and bring the Farax home. You will be surprised how much duco u get on top of that they will pay for the wedding

If you're brave enough to try this.. Go for it..

[Twist]

Well let me give you the best advice in cyber space ever

Tell the family you want to introduce someone that ur intrested, then bring home Jakaakoos.. after both ur parents faint, tell Jakakoos to leave, when ur parents come around and get over the shock, ask them how they feel. ofcourse ur dad will pull out his bakoorad and ur mom her dacas. Wait for 2 weeks and bring the Farax home. You will be surprised how much duco u get on top of that they will pay for the wedding

[The_Patriot]

Well let me give you the best advice in cyber space ever

Tell the family you want to introduce someone that ur intrested, then bring home Jakaakoos.. after both ur parents faint, tell Jakakoos to leave, when ur parents come around and get over the shock, ask them how they feel. ofcourse ur dad will pull out his bakoorad and ur mom her dacas. Wait for 2 weeks and bring the Farax home. You will be surprised how much duco u get on top of that they will pay for the wedding

[Shirib]

why does your family hate Hawiye?

[Thuganomics]