100k meher.

[BlackVelvet]

BV That would leave lots of people in miserable marriages.

Not really the ball is always in the woman's court. Normally if the woman asks for a divorce she needs to pay back the mehr, if she never received it there is nothing to pay back. If he really was a rubbish husband then he still has to pay something even if she's the one asking for a divorce. If the man asks for a divorce he has to pay the whole mehr.

There are women who really don't want to get divorced no matter how rubbish the guy is and this is an effective (even if misguided) way to not get divorced. And if she does get divorced she has a healthy nest egg to start over with.

[abdikarim86]

^^^Correct me if i am wrong. Even if she asks for the divorce,he is gonna have to pay up.

BV That would leave lots of people in miserable marriages.

If I'm wrong people correct me.

There are 2 types of divorce, one initiated by a man, and one initiated by a woman
through the courts.

If the man initiates, i.e. talaaq and reconciliation is not possible then the man
must pay all the mehr.

If a woman initiates through a court, then she loses her mehr and the man
pays nothing.

[fighter]

Lol desperate man

[Lillaahiya]

This is exactly what I mean by "if one doesn't pay, next man will" There's always gonna be someone to pay regardless of the amount.

I hope they upload their wedding on youtube

[Mondey]

Lol desperate man

i know what are u thinking,,

gettin 4 women for 1/4 of that money the nigga paid

[SultanOrder]

Lol desperate man

i know what are u thinking,,

gettin 4 women for 1/4 of that money the nigga paid

4 women for 25k, your another joker, that comes out to be a little more than 6k per women

[fighter]

Lol desperate man

i know what are u thinking,,

gettin 4 women for 1/4 of that money the nigga paid

4 women for 25k, your another joker, that comes out to be a little more than 6k per women

why don't we just marry white or Latina converts.

What money do they demand? They marry for love, not like these Somali women who clearly think its a busine s

You pay that kind of money for playboy girls who've been on the cover a few times and not to Somali girls with a jilbab that smells like suugo.

[mahdi01]

There was a wedding in Minnesota few years ago where the girl asked one Kilogram Gold as her mehr and the sheikh refused to do the mehr unless the guy states his job and how he will pay the mehr, after the guy refused to discuss his job the sheikh walked away and someone else in her family did the mehr ritual.

After 5 months I met the guy and asked “how things are going” he told me “they were divorced 2 months ago and she is pregnant with his child now”, I asked “did you divorced the woman you promised to give her one kilo Gold and did you pay her Mehr?” the dude replied “that woman was crazy to demand and entertain herself someone who works in factory Assembly line will pay her one Kilo Gold as mehr”.

These lavish mehr announcements are common in Qurbaha, but I have yet to see someone paid off their posh mehr and it is Haram to promise as mehr something you can’t afford to pay, no wonder they are only married few months.

[SultanOrder]

There was a wedding in Minnesota few years ago where the girl asked one Kilogram Gold as her mehr and the sheikh refused to do the mehr unless the guy states his job and how he will pay the mehr, after the guy refused to discuss his job the sheikh walked away and someone else in her family did the mehr ritual.

After 5 months I met the guy and asked “how things are going” he told me “they were divorced 2 months ago and she is pregnant with his child now”, I asked “did you divorced the woman you promised to give her one kilo Gold and did you pay her Mehr?” the dude replied “that woman was crazy to demand and entertain herself someone who works in factory Assembly line will pay her one Kilo Gold as mehr”.

These lavish mehr announcements are common in Qurbaha, but I have yet to see someone paid off their posh mehr and it is Haram to promise as mehr something you can’t afford to pay, no wonder they are only married few months.

[salool]

Wow, all he has to do is to refuse divorce her and if she goes to court , NO MEHER.I hope he is smart and play his cards right.

This topic gave me a great idea to help a relative naagti isku waalwaalshey.Thanx Zingy

[Saraxnow]

The meher does not have to be paid upfront people.

Mortgages arent paid upfront,doesnt mean people wanna sign up for a million dollar house.

You didn't just compare marriage to taking a loan

If the guy wasn't mentally incapacitated and he knows what he's doing, then mabrook to them.

What's the point of asking for so much money if you don't expect it all at once? Like are they doing it to have a steady stream of income? Do they want it monthly, yearly etc? What happens if the installment isn't paid on time? So many questions .

I think it's mostly symbolic than anything

[zingii]

Well if the intention was to be talked about then they have accomplished their goal.

uwlc salool.

[kambuli]

100 halaad or 100 kun oo dollar?

It is their business but I should say the lady is silly and the guy who accepted that is more silly.. Insecure bunch

[Daanyeer]

Yesterday there was this MEHER in Columbus where the bride to be asked for 100k and the guy accepted it.

help me in this MATH:


If X xalimo with 1 connection PORT costs 1 k


........THEN..........


How many connection PORTS would have Y Xalimo who costs 100k

[Niya]

Good for them if he can afford it! I recall a couple years ago when a groom walked out of the meher cermony after the bride demanded a large amount of money. Talk of the town was that the couple have agreed and all was ready to go, but that the day before a maternal uncle convinced the bride to be to ask for much more since the groom had money. When the groom to be was surprised at the nikaax cermony, he asked to speak with the lady and she insisted on the big money......................what a shocker it was when the groom to be walked out. People showed up at the hotel for the reception that night and found out the wedding was cancelled!!