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Re: Nikah misyar booming!

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Ismahan123 wrote:Looooooooool@ woman gives up her rights financially. What kind of family agrees to this contract for their women, better yet what kind of woman agrees to this bull? :-O
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FAH1223 wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:Looooooooool@ woman gives up her rights financially. What kind of family agrees to this contract for their women, better yet what kind of woman agrees to this bull? :-O
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many do, and even pay for the guy's personal expenses.
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Hyper

Somali sister would only give up her rights if the guy is non-Somali, especially White or Nigerian.


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salafi_student wrote:Hyper

Somali sister would only give up her rights if the guy is non-Somali, especially White or Nigerian.


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lol now ya ka 3elini hablaha? :lol:
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Re: Nikah misyar booming!

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Misyaar is not for men who can't provide finance, its more for women that couldn't find husbands.

it's beneficial for women in the first place, there are way more women that end up unmarried than men.
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Re: Nikah misyar booming!

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Mondey wrote:Misyaar is not for men who can't provide finance, its more for women that couldn't find husbands.

it's beneficial for women in the first place, there are way more women that end up unmarried than men.

very true. also some guys take advantage of it. marka wa masl7a moshtarika. every one has what other needs. hade la isku darsado betifaaq, ma7a ko jaban?lol
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Its haram, anyone with intention of marrying Just for sex is battel (Voided). This is in accordance with sunna. The shia do it but took it into another level called Mutá where you can book a girl for half an hour like in a brothel, you do the Kalama at the start and end up after half an hour when you do your deed with the divorce. Filth. its widespread these days in arab countries because the Guys are unemplyed and can't get married, its haram though according to most Sunnah Scholars as it contradict what islam teaches us.
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Re: Nikah misyar booming!

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what an awful practice, truly reprehensible. basically it's an islamic loophole for men indulge in their sexual desires without any burden of responsibility for the women or her wellbeing. it is obviously the same as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship only with an expiration date and sanctioned as "halal".
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It's mostly for young divorced/widowed women, they have needs so let us help them without locking ourselves in a serious relationship.

Win win situation :Obama:
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Re: Nikah misyar booming!

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grandpakhalif wrote:A recent report from Somalia states that nikah misyar is booming amongst the youth!

Nikah misyar is different in marriage in that the husband is not morally or financially responsible for the wife, she has no legal claims over his wealth, the marriage can be dissolved verbally without the need of any outside intermediary. And you can feel your needs in a halal matter.

Only two witnesses are needde and the ceremony can be conducted by any god fearing wadaad and for a small price meher is provided. Wa bashaal weyn! :lol: :lol:

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are we talking about Muslims or non-muslims here? because this is the opposite of everything the Quran said about marriage. and here you talking more about girl friend boy friend stuff.
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Somali men ain't shit. :stylin:
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The unemployment rate of young men in the Middle East alone ranges from 30-40%. Imagine Somalia. Imagine being a situation where you want to get married but can't even land a petty job that you may be overqualified for. Coupled with the general fact that women are seen as burdens to the family and are encouraged to marry young. Desperate times call for desperate measures!
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