More Somali Women, Than Somali Men.. (Statistic)

[salafi_student]

Less capture sanity here:

Somali Men have been battling and shooting in the head with each other for the past 25+ years. While in the other hand our female population have been doubling and even sky rocketing in numbers in some years. We're now getting use to the fact in back home, where the brothers there are taking care of four spouses. Where the sisters there have no choice to get married none other than Somali. (Because that is all they see!!!)

But the West it seems different, Our Somali sisters here seem to rely on Non-Somalis as it when there is shortage of Somali-husbands. But the fact is the times have changed, when we thought "One man for One Women" in marriage is long past, The time when $10,000 weddings is long gone. We are facing a new reality.

In order to balance our society, every brother must be encouraged to at least have two or three wife's to take-care of. The sooner we realize this fact the better!!


Ok Bye.

[ElfRuler]

There are plenty of non-Somali Muslim men....Alhamduillah.

P.S. You haven't posted as single statistic figure.

[salafi_student]

^^^

You're absolutely right, there are plenty of Nigerian brothers who want to have Somali-wifes and ship them to Abuja (Nigeria).

[ElfRuler]

The Nigerian boogyman

A Somali man's worst nightmare.

[Siciid85]

In back home it is possible due to certain circumstances, many places in the west though have rules against polygamy. Unless your living in Utah state of America, where
polygamy is legal.

[salafi_student]

in the west though have rules against polygamy.

Common Bruv.

The Americans especially as I'm aware some blacks there have more than 8 girlfriends, why shouldn't you not have more than one in a Halal way. Don't be scared son go for it. Tell you Sanet, what ever to change the law. So you can help our Som-sisters.


Cool.

[Keyblade]

We're now getting use to the fact in back home, where the brothers there are taking care of four spouses.

I love it when dudes marry 4 wives, the rationalization is that 'they're taking care of them, due to you know the extreme disproportion of women to men'...almost as if they had no choice .

[AbdiWahab252]

If you want to curse your children, take on a second wife and have children with her. The children from the first family will always resent the younger families.

[salafi_student]

Abdulwahab,

This propaganda was long believed to be the case, if you have more wifes then your children will suffer, None-sense. I know some bro's with two wifes, look after their kids better than Khat munching Faarah, who most of his nights spends in Marfish.

Its done to help in balancing the Somali society and not done to individual satisfaction!!

[zulaika]

more women more problems...u sure you can handle that?

[salafi_student]

^^^^
Before I publicly admit my private desires. All I'm happy to say now is I like to help and be part of balancing our Somali society. What ever it takes. as long as I'm not indulging in Haram.

[jalaaludin5]

When you say every brother, are you talking about the brothers in the west in particular, to go back home and take on two or three ? Since you mentioned that those back home are already doing this.

[BlackVelvet]

So you can help our Som-sisters.

Its done to help in balancing the Somali society and not done to individual satisfaction!!

Before I publicly admit my private desires. All I'm happy to say now is I like to help and be part of balancing our Somali society. What ever it takes. as long as I'm not indulging in Haram.

You are such a noble man!

[salafi_student]

Jalaaludin5

Back home you will have plenty to choose from and its take your pick. But here in the west you could probably end up in a competition against some Nigerian or Jamaican brothers all running after a Somali sister.


Blackvalv

Would I not help or should we allow our Nigerian/Ghanaian etc.. bros to help us as mentioned above? which I have nothing against!

[BlackVelvet]

Wow you have nothing against it AND you are willing to allow it. You meet and exceed expectations