[rant]so called "friends"

[salool]

Fulaynimado waa dhibaato weyn, you cant run to ur moma every time a kid want to beat you up, you're the man of the house...who's gonna protect ur mom, ur sisters in the future....walaahi hooyada waa to nice...aqalka kumaad so noqotaynba ila iyo inanka yar iska so celysid hadaan anigu hooyada ahaan laha..cuntada lagu siiya waa kugu khasaare mara waaxid.

Geesnimadu waa wadnaha maaha jidhka.Waar xoola yahow iska celiy ciyaalka.

Hooyo got angry with me that I didnt tell her until I got home
Btw im an only child and im 14
I playfought with him and I got injured on my back and leg
bending down even hurts
Btw I stayed inside the masjid bcoz it would be just me and him so if im losing no one can come in and i'll be doomed

Bacda a year you're 15 waryaa and you think you're still a child...no wonder you run to ur hooyo like a little kid.
Man up yarow and beat the shit out of that fatso, dont you have any brothers or cousins that can train you up..where is ur father...ma og yahy inaad tahay fulay xaar weyn?

[Shirib]

gosh, you guys are harsh on the kid

[InoCabdi]

Fulaynimado waa dhibaato weyn, you cant run to ur moma every time a kid want to beat you up, you're the man of the house...who's gonna protect ur mom, ur sisters in the future....walaahi hooyada waa to nice...aqalka kumaad so noqotaynba ila iyo inanka yar iska so celysid hadaan anigu hooyada ahaan laha..cuntada lagu siiya waa kugu khasaare mara waaxid.

Geesnimadu waa wadnaha maaha jidhka.Waar xoola yahow iska celiy ciyaalka.

Hooyo got angry with me that I didnt tell her until I got home
Btw im an only child and im 14
I playfought with him and I got injured on my back and leg
bending down even hurts
Btw I stayed inside the masjid bcoz it would be just me and him so if im losing no one can come in and i'll be doomed

Bacda a year you're 15 waryaa and you think you're still a child...no wonder you run to ur hooyo like a little kid.
Man up yarow and beat the shit out of that fatso, dont you have any brothers or cousins that can train you up..where is ur father...ma og yahy inaad tahay fulay xaar weyn?

when i said im an only child i meant that i didnt have any siblings
i am not a child

i playfought with him for a long time and it was a good fight
on saturday i will see him outside the masjid for a fight
if he is there

[Marques]

Fulaynimado waa dhibaato weyn, you cant run to ur moma every time a kid want to beat you up, you're the man of the house...who's gonna protect ur mom, ur sisters in the future....walaahi hooyada waa to nice...aqalka kumaad so noqotaynba ila iyo inanka yar iska so celysid hadaan anigu hooyada ahaan laha..cuntada lagu siiya waa kugu khasaare mara waaxid.

Geesnimadu waa wadnaha maaha jidhka.Waar xoola yahow iska celiy ciyaalka.

Hooyo got angry with me that I didnt tell her until I got home
Btw im an only child and im 14
I playfought with him and I got injured on my back and leg
bending down even hurts
Btw I stayed inside the masjid bcoz it would be just me and him so if im losing no one can come in and i'll be doomed

Bacda a year you're 15 waryaa and you think you're still a child...no wonder you run to ur hooyo like a little kid.
Man up yarow and beat the shit out of that fatso, dont you have any brothers or cousins that can train you up..where is ur father...ma og yahy inaad tahay fulay xaar weyn?

Habar fadhida legden la fududaa. How do you know how easily this miskiin brother can hold out against a guy much bigger than him? You should give him sound advice nooh.

waryaahoy, sxb ain't no shame when you know what you're worth..we can't be stronger than everyone. Best thing to do is to stay passive around him and don't playfight if he tries to play with you. If he lays a finger on you then make a suprise attack and knee him in the berries. Once that hurts him then you're free to inflict more pain but make it quick before he recovers. After that, make a run for it and don't come looking for him. If you see him on another day let him know that you have no beef with him but if he is gonna try it then tell him you ain't afraid to stand your ground.

[salool]

Waryahooy, dont take take my words to heart, i hate violence esp among teenagers.You said ur mother knows the family, i suggest you guys have a meeting both families and discuss this before this get out of hand.Obviously the other kid have problems and he's taking them on you, it can be jealousy or other factors, either way this cant go on any longer.

Bullies are the scum of the earth, and only time they feel good about themslves is when they bully others.

[InoCabdi]

Waryahooy, dont take take my words to heart, i hate violence esp among teenagers.You said ur mother knows the family, i suggest you guys have a meeting both families and discuss this before this get out of hand.Obviously the other kid have problems and he's taking them on you, it can be jealousy or other factors, either way this cant go on any longer.

Bullies are the scum of the earth, and only time they feel good about themslves is when they bully others.

well apparently hes a bad boy.
apparently before i came to ksa a big fight almost happened bcoz of him

[salool]

Abakar, si kasta oo jidhkaago daciif oo yahy o qofka kale kaaga xoog weyn yahy, hadaad geesi tahay waad is biimayneysa.Kartido wadnaha ayey ka timaado uun.Anigu waxaan is laha ka yara xanaajiy oo isaga oo karkariya barito hore ha ka dhex baxo saqajaanka caloosha weyn oo khamiiska xume weyn intu dhakada ugu duubo ha ku tunto.Laakin xabadan mid dagaal oo diyaar ah maaha oo waabu is dhawraya, so his mother should fight his battles.



Waryahooy, most kids who fight alot have problems at home, which means you're not the problem so dont feed his anger and stay away from him.Ilma kasta waa mesha oo ka so kaco, hadii oo ku amaan galin waayo you guys should have a meeting with the whole family.

[CushiticReflections]

btw this is the first time someone was racist to me here.
when I tell them im somali they say mashaAllah or just act normal
I know tgat there are racists from every people

You're right, there are racists in every group. But let me tell you something, it's not surprising that you knew his family and that they were "friends" with your family. I've had the same experience (except they were Arabs from a different country). It wasn't just once either, I saw their racism in many forms, both overt and covert and from various "friends" of the family or of me. They teach their kids that they are better than blacks, that anyone with dark skin is an abd, kalab, etc. Yet, being hypocrites, they form friendships with black families, invite them to their house, treat them nicely. And then as soon as they leave, they laugh with their Arab uncles, brothers, children about midow people. They are ignorant. Who cares if Somalis sold slaves? If anything, that should be shameful, the Qur'an states that it is an act of righteousness to free slaves. So as Muslims, we should not take pride in activities that are opposite to the acts of righteous believers.

I'm always surprised at people who are surprised when they see racism in Arab countries. It's very prevalent. While some midow immigrants might have an easier time (not always) in Saudi Arabia than in Western countries when it comes to positions and status in society, we are still treated as if we are of a lower status than Arabs or light-skinned people. If we come with a substantial amount of money and/or a passport from Western or similar regions, then we are spared harsh treatment we may otherwise face. Just look at Somalis who come straight from Somalia with no money after the war broke out. Correct me if I'm wrong, but they were treated with unwelcome, hatred, and abhorrence in many Arab nations except Syria. However, Syrians - although Arabicized - are an Assyrian people and ethnically different and culturally distinct in many ways. Yemen is one of the worst countries in the world in their treatment of Somali refugees. The only difference is that in Arab countries, many people will be hypocritical when it comes to race, smiling in your face and giving speeches about how we are inferior to friends when you're not there. That doesn't mean that all Arabs, without fail, are racist but many are.

[ofafrique]

KSA = Kingdom of Saudi Arabia correct?

Steer clear from this racist piece of filth.

[InoCabdi]

i went to the masjid yesterday for jumu'ah

i sat down with my egyptian friend
then he came
he said something to me and im suspicious that his dad is racist
i told him "may Allah guide you, you're sick . you have a sick heart. racism is a disease of the heart. May Allah heal you and guide you"
he laughed
and was like "may Allah guide YOU"
how ironic


if i isolate myself from him i'll lose my friends
i need to put on happy face

but i need to get him out of our group
but i need to look good.
im on eggshells

[CushiticReflections]

i went to the masjid yesterday for jumu'ah

i sat down with my egyptian friend
then he came
he said something to me and im suspicious that his dad is racist
i told him "may Allah guide you, you're sick . you have a sick heart. racism is a disease of the heart. May Allah heal you and guide you"
he laughed
and was like "may Allah guide YOU"
how ironic


if i isolate myself from him i'll lose my friends
i need to put on happy face

but i need to get him out of our group
but i need to look good.
im on eggshells

That's a difficult situation. Personally, I'd rather be alone than to have friends who aren't really friends at all. In my view, friends who allow another to discriminate against another are not true friends. They should at least understand and sympathize when it comes to your reaction to him (ie. cutting him out of your life). But everyone views friendships differently and can tolerate some things while they cannot tolerate others, so they have different standards when it comes to friendships. It's up to you but if you don't mind being alone in order to be free from such a racist and ignorant individual, then cut that person out.

[Egypt]

Don't fight him otherwise the Saudi government will behead you for attempted murder. joke

You should beat him at his own game, call him sameen xayawaan. Also as Somalis let us not pretend we are not racist towards negros.

[talxenegus]

wary wary bad story, bad plot, bad ending and bad actors. Write another one.