advice needed.

[FarhanYare]

what should I do with a flatmate that does not pull his weight when it comes to basic household cleaning mind you the nigger is way more older than me and i kept quite for some time thinking he will start realising that he needs to pull his weight nobody has the time for baby sitting .

[AyeeyoH]

Qof ka weyn wa inaad adigu oo shaqaysid..ka dhex bax guriga.It's simple realy.....subixi markaad so kacdid musqusha ku aftax intaanad meydhan.Jikada intaanad seexan ka si dhex bax...fadhiga iyo luuqa galabti markaad shaqada ka timaadid ka dhex bax.Labo qof wax ay osgageenayan baaba iska yar.

[AbdiJohnson]

Just clean the place on your own and don't voice your frustration. Be happy. Since he's older than you, respect your elders. Even if he's 2 or 3 yrs older. Make some food for him too

I am,

Abdi "House Keeping" Johnson

[Sheikh Mustafa]

Faarax,

Maybe he didn't know he was supposed to do anything. All you do is make a list of the things that need to be done and tell him to pick the few that he thinks he can do. Markaas usheeg inta jeer ee laqabto isbuucii. Hadii uu qaban waayo, Ask him miyaad ilawday shaqaadaas wali lama dhamayne mise way kugu adagtahay aan midkale kuugu bedelee? You need to play what we call Social Motivation. He will do the job but you play the game right.

[Individual]

Just clean the place on your own and don't voice your frustration. Be happy. Since he's older than you, respect your elders. Even if he's 2 or 3 yrs older. Make some food for him too

I am,
Abdi "House Keeping" Johnson

Not everyone is like you a uncle-tom servant or have the typical jareer Bantu slave mentality!


I am,

Abdi "House keeping slave, uncle tom" Johnson

[AbdiJohnson]

Just clean the place on your own and don't voice your frustration. Be happy. Since he's older than you, respect your elders. Even if he's 2 or 3 yrs older. Make some food for him too

I am,

Abdi "House Keeping" Johnson

Not everyone is like you a uncle-tom servant or have the typical jareer Bantu slave mentality!

I am proud Bantu servant. So what?

I am,

Abdi "Work Me" Johnson

[Individual]

Just clean the place on your own and don't voice your frustration. Be happy. Since he's older than you, respect your elders. Even if he's 2 or 3 yrs older. Make some food for him too

I am,

Abdi "House Keeping" Johnson

Not everyone is like you a uncle-tom servant or have the typical jareer Bantu slave mentality!

I am proud Bantu servant. So what?

I am,

Abdi "Work Me" Johnson

For real, I was joking about the jareer thing, I didnt know you were Bantu for real!

[Navy9]

If he does not have a health condition which makes him not capable of doing his share of his cleaning, if he is not 20+ older, and if he is not a short-term flat mate [less than a month] then you need to sit down with him. There are rules and responsibilities that each one of you need to abide by and respect.

[FarhanYare]

salool & fighter you lot cant be seriouse,







Mustafa,
sxb ama give him a 2 weeks notice untill i can get a replacement

[hargaysaay]

some people are born like that, lazy when it comes to doing stuff like that , I know cause I am one of them .

Navy9 probably gave you the best advise so far, if you are stuck with this guy for longer then sit down with him, tell him to step up .

[Sheikh Mustafa]

salool & fighter you lot cant be seriouse,







Mustafa,
sxb ama give him a 2 weeks notice untill i can get a replacement

Unless you tell him what he is suppose to do and fail to do, you are being unfair for kicking him out. It will be the same thing with the replacement. How did you expect him to know what he is suppose to do if you don't tell him. You are over reacting ina adeer. Ninka usheeg waxa laga rabo then wait for him to fail. Don't be surprised he might be the best roommate you can ever imagine.

[AgentOfChaos]

Method 1: Don't clean anything, in fact make it even more dirtier, trash everything for weeks UNTIL he gets the message.

Method 2: When the lease is up, move out.

method 3: Dump the trash on his bed, when he asks you why you did that, tell him "well I haven't seen you do cleaning around here, so obviously you like dirt and trash. I hope you like my present."

[AyeeyoH]

Faaraxoos,

Adiga khaladka iska leh...qofka markaad guriga ka kirayneysid baa wax kasta laga heshiya.Markaas bey aheyd wax kasta ina la socodsiisid.Hada wa too late..nimanka somalida badankooda guriga hooyadood bey ku so kibren...oo ma rabaan inay wax qabtaan.Marka amba banaanka oo tuur amba gurigaaga masaxo ilaahy gacmo ayuu ku siiye.Anigu kolayba qof iga weyn aqal hagaajiy ma odhan karo..waa yara ceeb iyo ixtiraam daro.

[QaaliDumar]

Maxaa ku jaban inaad tiraahdid walaal hawsha guriga aan qaybsano intaad sugaysid in uu is garto?

[hydrogen]

the nigger is way more older than me